8 Ways to Get out of the Friend Zone ...


Alright pretty ladies, I'm going to share with you 8 ways to get out of the friend zone. We all have those cute guy friends that we wish would see us as more than an asexual person they hang with, but have no idea how. It's so frustrating when all you want is the guy who calls you to go grab a beer to actually mean it as a date instead of as just "one of the guys." The following ways to get out of the friend zone are going to help you shine in a new light to these men, and who knows, maybe even score you someone you had put in the friend zone yourself.

1. Show You Are Wanted

This is the basic and most primal instinct for men. All a guy wants to see about a girl is that other men find her attractive, and want to pursue her. Once this happens, the natural competitive factor kicks, whether guys realize it or not. Just showing you are wanted by other men is a simple way to get out of the friend zone. Go out to a bar, play a game of dodgeball, go hang with your "friend" and his friends, just make sure to flirt it up with anyone who tries to hit on you! The attractive factor is not that important, the key is just igniting the caveman in your friend.

Don't Make the Effort


Heather Jensen
Hi Ashleigh! Sometimes, you gotta play hard to get just to ensure that the guy stays interested. I don't think you necessarily have to give him the cold shoulder all the time, but sometimes can be good!
Heather Jensen
Hi Ariana! I think that texting a guy first is okay! That way, you can get the conversation started!
Heather Jensen
Agreed! :) Thank you for the comment April!
April Anderson
Men are hunters! If you laid a dead deer at their door it wouldn't be exciting! So yes play a little hard to get! I met a guy that I texted all the time . One day I stopped and within a week he was bl...
This sounds like kinda bad advice, no offense. If you're trying to get out of the friend zone with a guy (or girl) and you keep purposefully making yourself unavailable when time doesn't preset itself...
What about texting guys first? Like not to hang out just to say hey or something to get the conservation going? Im only in high school so its not like we would be in a serious relationship or anything.
That whole play hard to get and keep cool thing is just so hard! I guess I'm not the person who plays games like that but I actually never had problems to get out of the friend zone before, so it's pr...
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