5. Be Unavailable

When a guy asks you to hang out, tell him you have plans.

Be too busy to hang with him more often than not.

Let him realize other people want you around them, and you aren't at his beck and call.

You just became ten times more appealing to him because you now are a chase, wanted by others, and making him feel and be unimportant.

Have the ball in your court when it comes to making plans.

Go ahead and even ignore his texts.

You can respond in a few days when you are ready to go out with him.

Make sure to not come off prissy and throw it in his face that so and so wants to hang out.3

It's not attractive.

Remember, you are a woman of mystery!

It gives the guy a chance to realize how much he enjoys your company when you aren't there to give it to him all the time.

Be the Cool Girl


Mariam Aboutaleb
Now there is a guy that i like. We used to talk a lot but then my bestfriend kept saying bad things about me to him and stuff like that. Since then men and him haven't really talked a lot/ I don't really want to lose my best friend over a guy. But the problem is that guy doen't talk to me like he used to do. I saw him a week ago he kept telling me I'm beautiful and stuff. Now I want to get him to like me but I don't know how cause I'm kind of shy and I don't talk to him a lot I don't really see him a lot so it's hard for me to contact with him. And I think I'm not his type. Now I don't know what to do any advice please?
Heather Jensen
HI Lyla! Firstly, why did he turn you down? I think you need to find that out first and then figure out if he really does like you ... and if he does, why did he reject you? After that, I'd go for it!
I was turned down by a ling distance friend and he said...he cannot date me..he likes me a lot but he wants to be good friends..but from his actions I think he likes me as more than a friend! He also gets jealous(tries to hide it) when I mention other guys...and he wants to know if I am dating someone atm...he's a nice guy..and I love him...are these tips for me too??
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