The Ultimate πŸ’― Girls Guide πŸ“— to Taking Your Relationship πŸ’ from "Blah" πŸ™ to Hot AF πŸ”₯ ...


Do you feel like your relationship has gone a bit stale?

You’re not alone.

Breakups increase in frequency when the warmer weather comes round, as people evaluate whether they are truly happy or feeling a bit bored.

Boredom doesn’t have to signal the end, though.

If the relationship is otherwise good – or even if it’s still good – taking some steps to refresh it and keep it exciting will spice it up and ensure you’re still together when the cooler weather rolls back round.

1. Look at Photos

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Yep, get out your pictures, your phone or scroll through Instagram, and look back on those happier times.

Take a trip down memory lane and talk about when you first got together, or that great trip you took together, or just something that always makes you happy.

Relishing in good memories will help you to reconnect and feel closer.

2. Go on a Date

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A proper one, not just a movie night or that same restaurant you visit all the time.

Book somewhere new, and make a real effort to dress up and look and feel the part.2

Spend the evening talking about fun topics, not work or domestic drudgery, and flirt with each other!

Treat each other like you would if you were trying to woo each other.

It’ll relieve tension, and bring you closer together.2

3. Leave Cute Notes

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You can do this one right now!

Go and scribble a cute love note and leave it in your partner’s lunchbox, or scrawl something lovely on the bathroom mirror.

Anything goes, but make sure it’s not a text or email – go back to basics and reconnect outside of the digital world.

It’s touching, and it’ll make your partner feel loved.

Everyone will be smiling!

4. Cook Dinner

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Not just every night.

When it’s not expected, whip out high-quality ingredients and make your partner’s favourite dish.

Follow it up with a delicious dessert and make sure you set the scene – tidy up, get some candles, whatever you feel like.

It shows you were thinking about your partner, and it’ll make them feel cherished.


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