7. Surprising Him at Work

Ladies, this is something I would suggest doing later on in your dating journey rather than just after a few dates. Showing up right away to your man's work is a little stalkerish and creepy, which isn't the biggest turn on. After a good amount of dates and you both feel secure in how you feel about each other, surprising him at work is a sweet gesture to show a guy you like him. It lets him know you want to see him with out needing to do any date activity. Don't be shocked if he is busy or in his own head, but instead grab a girlfriend and head out for a drink where he works. If you act coy and wait for him to contact you after work he'll be sure to say, "thank you for coming in, it made my night", which he's been dying to tell you since he saw you!

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How do I do to stop falling in love???
Aryan Isley
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Heather Jensen
I would do it face to face -- I know that it's a little hard, but who knows what could happen! Are you brave enough to maybe do a poster board with 'I like you!" on it and hold it up for him? :)
This is helpful but unfortunately, I'm still stuck 😔 I've know the guy I like for YEARS but we hadn't seen each other for a while until this year. We talk a lot because I see him all the time ...
Heather Jensen
Why don't you try asking him out? That could be a good thing! :)
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