7. Surprising Him at Work

Ladies, this is something I would suggest doing later on in your dating journey rather than just after a few dates.

Showing up right away to your man's work is a little stalkerish and creepy, which isn't the biggest turn on.

After a good amount of dates and you both feel secure in how you feel about each other, surprising him at work is a sweet gesture to show a guy you like him.

It lets him know you want to see him with out needing to do any date activity.

Don't be shocked if he is busy or in his own head, but instead grab a girlfriend and head out for a drink where he works.

If you act coy and wait for him to contact you after work he'll be sure to say, "thank you for coming in, it made my night", which he's been dying to tell you since he saw you!

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Heather Jensen
That's awesome Eliza!! :)
I took your advice, and after a few weeks of doing all this, the guy i liked told me he liked me!! He even asked me to senior prom! thank you so much, this stuff really does work!!
Chloeneedshelp!: there is this supercute guy in my class, we are actually good friends, when we were 5 we got "married" but now were 13, i really like him... i think he may like me too, but i think he may have his eye on "miss popular".. but on the other hand, he wants to be with me a lot, and he once asked me to the dance.. but "just as friends"........ i dont know what to think.. please help!!!!!!!!!!
ive just started collage and ive made some good friend but ive also made a very speical friend that ive fallen in love with but we kiss and we hug and we enjoy each others company but he said hes scard that if we brake up :( and he dosnt want to be in a relashion ship my heart akes when i think of him too can somebody give me some tips ? :(
Heather Jensen
Hey Little! Have you tried any of the tips above? They really work!
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