21 Phenomenal πŸ™ŒπŸΌ Ways to Stop βœ‹πŸΌ Constant Fighting 😀 in a Relationship πŸ’‘ ...

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There are a lot of ways to stop fighting in a relationship, but do you always want to follow them?

Constant fighting in a relationship isn't healthy, but sometimes it happens.

If you're finding yourself constantly fighting with your boyfriend or girlfriend, you've got to take a look at my ways to stop fighting in a relationship so you can really get back to enjoying each other!

Remember, fights are typically caused by misunderstandings and underlying issues!

1. Don't Bring up the past

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This is a huge step that I need to learn.

I would say, one of the key ways to stop fighting in a relationship is to stop bringing up the past.

The past is the past and the more that you bring it up, the worse the fight can actually be.

Bringing up the past can also bring up a lot of old emotions, which is never good.2

Don't Leave Things Unresolved

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Josh Martin
So to all the people who are reading this and fight with thier BF/GF I have learned that when a relationship is new it's like having a small Pitbull or Rott puppy. They will bite and try to jump up on furniture and it's not bothersome when they are young but if you do not correct it when they are big you will have issues. Relationships are the same. From day 1 you both need to start training each other. You will start to lay out the groundwork from day 1 as to how your relationship will go and how you interact with each other. If you are doing things that bug eachother and are being jealous from early on within the first 6 months then a few years down the road that shit will turn very bad. Small arguments in the beginning will turn into huge fights later on. So what I am saying is you need to not put up with the smallest shit at the begining. If you accept jealousy or controlling characteristics in the beginning you are setting up those to be part of the relationship. Allowing someone to look through your phone or read emails is not something you should allow or put up with. You need to nip any of these undesired behaviors right away. Jealousy is one of the biggest reasons for fights in relationships jealousy leads to controlling behavior. So do not allow those behaviors to start. With that being said you will not accept those behaviors but at the same time you need to not be doing anything to cause your partner to feel worried about you or jealous. I barely fight with my gf and I trust her and she trusts me. That is hard to get someone like that but I work on it. have a rule I just do that if I wouldn't do something with my GF right in front of me I don't do it. That means the way I talk to other girls or people If I wouldnt do or say something the same way if my GF was right there I just don't do it. I also don't put myself in situations where cheating or anything like that can occur. I do this for her and to have a healthy relationship but I also expect the same in return
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