Sometimes you want to give your man the message that you’re in the mood without coming right out and saying it. Letting him know in a more subtle manner can be sexy. If you need some ideas on this subject then you’re in the right place. These are 7 ideas you can use to tell him you’re in the mood without saying a word.
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1. Give Him a Real Kiss
After you’ve been in a relationship for a while, those passionate kisses you shared so frequently at the beginning of your relationship can fade. They’re replaced by the sweet but simple brush of his lips against yours. There’s something to be said for being comfortable with those sorts of kisses but they don’t always invoke a lot of sexual desire. Give him a passionate kiss, maybe letting your body press up against his in the process. He’ll get the message.
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Reignite the fire with an unexpected, fervent kiss that reminds him of your early days together. Let your hands wander as they once did, tracing the contours of his back or curling into his hair, pulling him closer. The intensity of this silent message is unmistakable, and it communicates your longing far more effectively than words ever could. The surprise and depth of this connection can stir a deep, irresistible arousal that speaks volumes about your desires.
2. Model Some Lingerie
This’s a fun one and one he can’t misunderstand. On a normal day, put on some of his favorite lingerie. Then walk into the room where he is, all the while being oh-so-casual about what you’re wearing. He’ll forget all about the game he’s watching. The only thing on his mind will be you.
Frequently asked questions
It's all about sending the right signals! Try setting a romantic atmosphere, giving a gentle touch, or maybe sharing a flirty look. You'd be surprised how much he can pick up on these little hints.
Totally get that! You can start small, like sitting closer to him or playing his favorite song. And remember, it's perfectly okay to feel shy. Just give it time, and you'll find your own way to communicate without words.
Guys notice more than you think! Changes in your body language, like leaning towards him or making eye contact, are big giveaways. Even something as simple as a smile can be a huge hint.
Oh definitely! Sending a playful text, maybe a winking emoji or a simple 'thinking about you', can set the scene just right. It's a fun way to start the mood when you're not physically together.
Absolutely! Look for signs like him being more attentive, touching your hand or shoulder more often, or even just a look in his eyes. Trust me, you'll know when he's on the same page!
3. Show Some Cleavage
This is a subtle way of letting him know you’re in the mood. Put on something that shows some cleavage and makes you feel sexy. Be sure to give him the opportunity for a good look. Maybe you need to bend down to pick up your book or you just happen to be dusting the coffee table he’s sitting behind. Catch him looking and give him a wink.
4. Have a Private Signal
This is something you can work out ahead of time. It’s a special way of communicating with each other that not all couples have. Work out some sort of signal to tell each other that you’re in the mood. Maybe you bite your bottom lip or play with your earring to let him know how you’re feeling. Once this is decided, you’ve always got a way to say it without saying it.
5. Kiss His Neck
This one may be the oldest trick in the book. Gentle little kisses on his neck leave no question what you’re trying to tell him. Take your time and linger before moving on to the next spot. You can gently trail your way down to his chest and continue going as far as you’d like. He won’t have any objections.
6. Lead Him to the Bedroom
This is a simple way to let him know what you want. It’s very direct and a good one to choose if some of the more subtle ways haven’t got his attention. Take his hand and lead him to the bedroom. Give him your sexy smile on the way. He’ll know what you’re saying.
7. Let Him See You Changing Clothes
When you’re in a committed relationship, seeing each other change clothing is a normal, everyday part of that. But there are still ways you can make him notice you. Change a little slower than you usually do, making sure to give him a good view as you’re doing so. Give him a look that leaves no question what you’re doing. You probably won’t make it to getting redressed.
These are 7 ideas on how to tell your guy you’re in the mood without saying a word. Which ones do you plan to try? I’d love to hear from you.
Comments
Eneye: Engage him in rough play
Michelle: Cleavage is the best way. Laying in the couch purposely lay on your side facing him and sneakily pull your shirt down just a tad so he gets a little peak. He's on me in no time!
Emily: Lol yeah i guess so Carey. Stupid video games lol
Emily: Wow Carey.. Your guy sounds like a jerk.. Sorry to say but for a guy to say that? Holy.. These all work on my man. :)
Diksha: My man s out for more than 15 days at a stretch... Sometimes he jumps to it straight and sometimes i hav to make it happen... For those days, ill deff try these. Lets c wat wrks.. Wil kepe u al updated ;)
Carey: Kayy I agree the clothes thing doesn't work. I tried the lingerie one and this is how it ended: "wow!! Go wait in the bedroom and I'll come ****you as soon as I'm done my game" (Call of Duty). He came in four hours later. I had changed by then and I don't think he wen remembered. :(
Kayy: The clothes thing doesn't work he looks but it doesnt go any further. The kiss things a good idea gna give it a go. :)
Carey: Lucky you, Emily!! I'm just gonna have to keep trying, just have to try to find a time when he's not gaming working or sleeping. Lol :D
Suzi: It all depends how you get undressed.
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