What You Need to Know πŸ€” about Toning down ⏬ Jealousy 😀 and Avoid 🚫 Being a Crazy 😜 Girlfriend πŸ’‘ ...


It’s difficult to change your personality once you are far into your life, even if this need for change is intrinsic and comes from within. Jealousy is one of those ugly personality traits that all of us would do better without but is also very tricky to deal with without blowing up emotionally. When it comes to relationships, it can lead to numerous fights and misunderstandings for no good reason. Therefore, it is something that must be contained so here are a few tips to tone down your jealousy!

1. Be Rational and Realize That Jealousy is Unnecessary

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Unless you have a good reason to suspect something, you must push away the jealousy and look at the situation from a rational perspective. Is being jealous and showing it really the right thing to do here? Do you have a good reason for it? If the answer to both of those questions is no, take a deep breath and push the jealousy away!

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Kelsie Graham
I suffer from anxiety and depression so it's already hard on me. When I found out I literally became the crazy girlfriend. How do I gain his trust back? How do I not get so jealous?
Kelsie Graham
When this boy and I first started talking he was messaging tons of girls and flirting with them. I got jealous but did nothing about it. He asked me out and later found out he was cheating on me.
How do you expect someone to love you the way you want them to when you can't even love yourself like that? Kind of hits home.
It's so different hearing it come from another perspective. Your mind does crazy things when you keep feeding it with negative thoughts and making up scenarios that aren't going to happen. Jealousy does narrow down to self-confidence.
I love this, jealousy has always been an issue with me, but whenever I try to think why I'm jealous I can never come up with anything concrete. It's definitely something I need to work on.
I love this !!!!
Ops I haven't gotten pass point 3! My bad!
We also need to put trust into our partners that they will do the right thing if they are attached though, am I right? πŸ€”πŸ€”
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