What It's like to Sleep with Someone Who Has a Large Penis ...

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What It's like to Sleep with Someone Who Has a Large Penis ...
What It's like to Sleep with Someone Who Has a Large Penis ...

So, the stereotype is that everyone who likes dick wants to sleep with someone with a big penis, yes? You hear it all the time. The belief is that if you're into guys, whether you're a guy or a girl yourself, you want someone with a very large unit. The idea, of course, is that it's impossible to be sexually satisfied with a small penis, and large disco sticks provide you with far more pleasure. Before I came out, I had the … ahem, the opportunity to have sex with a dude who had a huge unit. It was 'YUUUUGE, in fact. So, even though I am now a very happily married lesbian, let me shine some light on the subject. Here's what it's like when you meet a guy who's got a big ol' eggplant.

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1. You Need to Find the Right Sexual Position

You Need to Find the Right Sexual Position This is terribly important. Eventually, once your body is really ready (and used to all that length and/or girth), you may well be able to tackle any position imaginable, but the first time, keep it slow and steady. Err on the side of caution, even if it means missionary.

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When it comes to sex with someone who has a large penis, it is important to take it slow and find the right position for both partners. It is best to start with the missionary position as this will provide the most comfort and control for both partners. As you become more comfortable, you can experiment with different positions that are more stimulating and enjoyable. Remember to take your time and communicate with your partner to ensure that both of you are having a pleasurable experience.

2. You've GOT to Relax

You've GOT to Relax This is also very, very important. It may take a while, not to mention plenty of foreplay, but you need to be completely relaxed.

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Relaxing is key to having a pleasurable experience when sleeping with someone who has a large penis. Taking your time and engaging in plenty of foreplay can help to ensure that you are both relaxed and comfortable. This is especially important if it is your first time with someone with a large penis. Being relaxed can also help to reduce any potential pain or discomfort that may occur. Additionally, taking the time to ensure that you are properly lubricated can help to make the experience more enjoyable. Communication is also important, as it can help to ensure that both partners are on the same page.

Frequently asked questions

It can sometimes be uncomfortable if there's not enough lubrication or if you're not fully aroused. Taking your time with foreplay and using lube can really help.

For some people, the thickness or length of a penis can enhance the sensation and make sex more enjoyable. Others might find it too intense. It's all about what feels good for you.

Yes, some positions can be more comfortable, like spooning or being on top. It gives you more control over the depth and pace.

Definitely! Using extra lube can make things smoother and more pleasurable. It's a simple trick that can make a big difference.

Honesty is key. Let your partner know what feels good and what's a bit too much. It's about finding a balance that works for both of you.

3. Be Very, Very Vocal

Be Very, Very Vocal If something hurts or you're just not feeling it, you have to say so. Your vagina will thank you.

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It is important to be vocal when engaging in sexual activities with someone who has a large penis. If something is uncomfortable, speak up and communicate your needs. Asking your partner to slow down or be gentler can be a great way to make sure you are both enjoying the experience. Additionally, it is important to use plenty of lubricant to reduce friction and make the experience more enjoyable. Taking breaks and changing positions can also help to make sex more comfortable. Lastly, don't be afraid to experiment and find out what feels best for you.

4. Be Confident in Bed

Be Confident in Bed Not just that, but don't be afraid to take control – because, again, you may need to ease into (haha, or onto) this and it's important to relax.

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When it comes to sleeping with someone who has a large penis, it can be intimidating and overwhelming. This is especially true for those who have never experienced something of this size before. It is important to stay confident and relaxed when in bed with someone with a large penis. Taking control of the situation can help to ease any anxiety that may arise.

It is important to remember that communication is key. Talking openly and honestly about what works and what doesn't is essential in any sexual encounter. This is especially true when it comes to sleeping with someone who has a large penis. Making sure that both partners are comfortable and that their needs are being met is paramount.

In addition, it is important to use plenty of lube. A large penis can cause discomfort and even pain if not properly lubricated. This is especially true for those engaging in anal sex. Using a water-based lubricant is recommended for this type of situation.

It is also important to experiment with different positions. This will help to make sure that both partners are comfortable and that their needs are being met. Experimenting with different positions can also help to make the experience more pleasurable for both partners.

5. If It's Too Big, Don't Force It

If It's Too Big, Don't Force It Seriously. It's not too late to back out. There are other things you can do to get each other off.

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Having sex with someone who has a large penis can be intimidating and even a bit scary. It is important to remember that regardless of size, there is no need to force yourself or your partner into something that is uncomfortable. It is important to communicate with your partner about what feels good and what doesn't. This communication can be verbal or nonverbal.

If it feels too big, don’t be afraid to take a break, or switch to a different sexual activity. A great way to start is by using lubrication as it can make penetration more comfortable. It is also important to make sure that you are relaxed and aroused, as this can help make the experience more enjoyable.

If you are still feeling overwhelmed, there are other activities you can do with your partner that don’t involve penetration. You can start with light touching such as caressing, kissing, and massage. You can also explore oral sex or manual stimulation.

It is also important to remember that everyone is different and sizes vary. It is important to keep an open mind and not judge a partner based on their size. Also, it is important to remember that sex is not just about penetration. There are many other activities you can do that are just as enjoyable.

6. It Can Be Uncomfortable in the Beginning

It Can Be Uncomfortable in the Beginning It can be REALLY uncomfortable. You may need a lot of lube, otherwise, it can feel like using a super tampon when you don't really need one.

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It is important to remember that a larger penis does not necessarily mean better sex. It can be a great experience, but it can also be a challenge. It may take time to get used to the size, and it can be uncomfortable in the beginning. You may need more lubrication than usual, and it can be a bit painful if you’re not used to it. It is important to communicate with your partner about how it feels and to take your time. With patience and understanding, it can be a pleasurable experience.

7. ...it Can Also Be Painful

...it Can Also Be Painful See above. You need to be extra careful if you feel pain, too. Some pain is normal, but you don't want to damage or hurt yourself.

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Being intimate with a partner who is well-endowed can introduce a level of discomfort that isn't just about stretching your boundaries—it's literal. You might think more is always better, but your body can only accommodate so much. While a certain degree of discomfort can be expected as you adapt, experiencing outright pain should be your cue to slow down. Communication is key. Make sure you're speaking up and finding positions that are pleasurable for both of you. After all, intimacy should be about mutual pleasure, not enduring pain for the sake of your partner's ego or size.

8. This is Why Communication is so, so Important

This is Why Communication is so, so Important For real. You have to talk, you have to be honest, and you have to speak up.

9. You Will Feel Really Full

You Will Feel Really Full Like, you might feel like his penis is going to rip out of your belly button. It's not.

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Sleeping with someone who has a large penis can be an intense experience. It's often more pleasurable than uncomfortable, but it can be intimidating. Many women find that the sensation of fullness is much more intense than with a smaller penis. This is because the penis is able to penetrate deeper, and the sensation of being filled up can be overwhelming at times. However, it's important to remember that the penis won't rip out of the belly button, no matter how full you feel. With the right amount of communication and patience, sleeping with someone who has a large penis can be a thrilling and enjoyable experience.

10. Lube It up Good

Lube It up Good I'm serious, I cannot emphasize this point enough. Use it even if you don't typically need it.

11. Understand That You Might Not Be Able to Fit It All in

Understand That You Might Not Be Able to Fit It All in It happens. Do not force it.

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Sometimes, despite your willingness and creativity, accommodating a larger size takes a blend of strategy and patience. Be prepared for a trial-and-error process as you find what's comfortable and what's not. Communication here is key; openly talk about what feels good and what doesn't. There's no shame in taking things slow or trying different angles, positions, or even accessories designed to help. Most importantly, listen to your body and honor its boundaries—pleasure should never come at the cost of discomfort or pain.

12. Don't Forget to Foreplay

Don't Forget to Foreplay Stellar foreplay will make the whole thing go so much more smoothly – in more ways than one! The point is, you have to be aroused – you have to be very, very aroused.

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Taking time to build anticipation and excitement is essential. Think of foreplay as the necessary groundwork; it's about igniting the senses and creating a fever pitch of desire. From gentle teasing to more intentional touches, foreplay is how you both get into the perfect headspace for an incredible experience. Remember, when it comes to intimacy, the journey can be just as thrilling as the destination. So, indulge in the appetizer before the main course – your body will thank you for the extra attention to detail!

13. He Needs to Go Slow

He Needs to Go Slow Make sure you repeat this as many times as necessary.

14. Don't Be Scared to Switch up the Position in the Middle

Don't Be Scared to Switch up the Position in the Middle Once you get more comfortable, switching up your position can be absolutely mind blowing.

15. Keep an Open Mind

Keep an Open Mind Don't be afraid of the penis. Don't be afraid to try new things.

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Avoid letting intimidation or preconceived notions about size dictate your experiences. Remember, communication is key. Talk to your partner about what feels good and what doesn't. Experimenting with different positions and angles can make a big difference. And always remember the importance of foreplay—it can help immensely with comfort levels. Remember to keep things fun and lighthearted. Exploration and mutual respect for each other's comfort zones can lead to a deeply satisfying experience for both of you.

16. … Which Means, Trying Things That You Might Not Be Comfortable with

… Which Means, Trying Things That You Might Not Be Comfortable with You might even have to try a position you never thought you'd try.

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For many women, sleeping with someone who has a large penis can bring a mix of emotions. It can be intimidating, but also exciting. It is important to keep an open mind and communicate with your partner. It might be a good idea to experiment with different positions to find one that is comfortable and pleasurable for both of you. This might mean trying things that you are not used to, or might not feel comfortable with. It is important to be honest and communicate openly with your partner about your feelings. With the right attitude and communication, you can have an enjoyable and safe experience.

17. Don't Penetrate until YOU Are Wet Enough

Don't Penetrate until YOU Are Wet Enough This deserves its own point. You have to be lubricated. You have to be. Under no circumstances should you proceed if you aren't wet.

Let's get nitty-gritty, down and dirty, totally honest. Have you ever slept with someone who has a large member? How'd it go?

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Hello

Most of you will not agree but as far as my medical knowledge goes,penis size has nothing go do with sex and pleasure etc. Vagina is only sensitive in outer some part (anatomical description) and rest part which is inside is insensitive. But, it has become a wrong notion that bigger the size,more is the pleasure or it is more painful and all the things relating all this is scientifically not correct actually.

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I think it's different

The feeling of being stretched open and stuffed full, it's the best 💕 Going slow is worth it! Big dicks are very rewarding

Trust me when I say...GREAT ADVICE! Yes, in general but definitely IN PARTICULAR if your man has a giant member! I was uncomfortable for 2 days after the farm

Yowza!

First (not farm...opps) time we slept together-we had sex 5 times and I only orgasmed with oral sex!! It actually hurt at first!

What 😂.. 1/2 of the "advice" is about sex in general i would say 😂.. No matter of the size

It's the best thing ever🙌🏾😂🍆