7. Just Because He's on Your Radar, You Don't Have to Date Him

You already know this guy through your friend, so he's on your radar.

It may seem easy to date someone that you've already met, rather than look for someone new to date.

But although you may think that you know him, you probably don't know him as well as you think.

You don't need to take an opportunity just because it's there …

Even if your friend says she's cool with you dating her ex, she may not be.

Why risk a friendship over a guy?

So it really is best to find yourself another partner …


Necessarily wrong. If your friend is truly alright with it, there will be a bit of awkwardness, but you all will get used to it as time goes on. I'm just happy she didn't sleep with him...😊that would be not only a little scarring, but very hard to confron
I don't think it's necessary
I will never date my friends exes where the f🌺🌺🌺 is the loyalty at
Remember, you when you sleep with someone you are in essence sleeping with every person (s)he slept with. Don't be icky!
Alexandra Bocanegra Castro
Sometimes it just happens...you met someone that is you ex's friends, the sparks are amazing and you find something called love. If it's done with no bad intentions then it's not a bad thing. Nobody owns someone
My best friend married my ex boyfriend. We dated all of our senior year of high school and he was the one who dumped me. I moved on and married my wonderful husband a few years later. It was after I was already married that my best friend started dating him. It was a little awkward at first bur eventually we all just got used to it. He and my husband get along great and now consider themselves good friends. I was one of the bridesmaids at their wedding which some of his family were shocked at because they didn't realize that he was marrying my friend. It's been 20 years so it's never an issue, once in a while one of the four of us will make a joke about it.
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