It is an unfortunate fact about humanity and society, but nonetheless true that there are millions of young girls and women all over the world for that, for reasons that they might not even be sure of, feel completely unlovable. Whether you have had a bad relationship experience, or your feeling stem from the fact that you have never had a relationship at all, the feeling of being unlovable can be really tough to live with, especially if you can’t quite put your finger on why you feel this way. Here is why you think you are unlovable according to your zodiac sign.
It’s something that you know about yourself but you can’t seem to change effectively. You don’t like to admit it, but sometimes you can be kind of a bitch!
You are still stuck in the past, focusing on an old relationship that fell apart. You will never feel lovable again until you can leave the past in the past and move on.
You are majorly insecure, and this manifests in you not believing people when they compliment you on a daily basis. This can come across as standoffish.
You spend too much time worrying about what other people think of you. Getting caught up in other people’s perceptions will always end up with a degree of self-hate.
You are your own worst critic, so if something happens, you feel one hundred as bad about it as anybody around you. Your perception of your own failures is way too high.
You focus too much on your flaws, and it makes it impossible for you to be able to see your own strengths. This is sad because as a Virgo you have WAY more strengths than flaws.
You might have lost contact with some old close friends recently, and this can definitely snowball into feelings of loneliness, that at the moment, feel like that are going to be with you forever. They won’t.
You tend to carry around lots of baggage from past situations in your life, which means that you are always thinking about the worst times rather than looking forward to future good times.
You are a very literal person who relies on logic, and the ambition to be lovable is arguably something that involves lots of hope and blind optimism. These things are necessarily natural for you to summon.
You have been disappointed too many times in your life, and it has resulted in your heart going somewhat cold. A few bad experiences in your life have led to you becoming a sceptic.
You have had experiences in the past when your kindness has been taken advantage of, and as a result, you are very wary of being vulnerable with someone again.
People love to be your text buddy, but you don’t ever seem to be able to leave the friend zone with your crushes. A lot of this can understandably cause a person to questions their lovability.