Wise Words for 20 Year Olds regarding Smart Sex ...

When you choose to have sex is your decision, and your decision only. If you're sexually active, it doesn't make you a bad person, just like being a virgin doesn't make you a "loser." As long as you're doing what makes you feel comfortable and happy, then you should be proud of your decisions. It doesn't matter if you've been having sex for years or if you're new to the whole experience, because you could learn something from these wise words for women in their 20s:

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There Are Different Types of Birth Control Pills

You already know about the importance of using condoms and asking your partner to get tested for STDs. However, you should also be aware of the fact that different birth control pills work better for different women. Before you go on the pill, do some research and have in depth talks with your gynecologist to figure out which option is best for your body.

Nothing is Wrong with Your Body

Every woman's body is build differently, which means there's nothing wrong with the way that your breasts or your vagina looks. Unless you have a sexually transmitted disease, nothing on your body will shock the men that you're with. They'll think that you're beautiful, no matter how big or small or lopsided certain body parts look.

You Never Owe Him Sex

It doesn't matter if your date bought you dinner and a diamond ring. It doesn't even matter if you two are half-naked in bed. You're still allowed to tell him that you're not ready to have sex. Never let him, or anyone else, pressure you to do it before you're ready. If he can't wait until you're comfortable, then find someone new who actually respects your decisions.

You Should Never Fake It

Men aren't the only ones who should be having fun in the bedroom. Once you're sexually active, make it clear that you expect to orgasm as often as he does. Even though a woman's body is harder to please than a man's body is, that's no excuse for him to skimp on touching you in all the right places. Never let him get away with his laziness by faking your orgasm.

Sex Wont Make Him Love You

Sex can strengthen your feelings for someone. However, it isn't guaranteed to make a man love you. If your crush decides to hook up with you while he's drunk at a party, he might not even remember the occasion in the morning, let alone want to make you his girlfriend. So before you agree to sleep with someone, make sure you're on the same page about where your relationship is heading.

Famous Quotes

To give oneself earnestly to the duties due to men, and, while respecting spiritual beings, to keep aloof from them, may be called wisdom.

Confucius

You Should Masturbate More Often

Experimentation is healthy. Even if you don't have a partner to try new things with, you can always have fun with yourself. Masturbation is not only healthy for your mind and body, but it will also help you learn what you like, which will come in handy once you land a boyfriend.

You SHould Communicate to Tell Him What to do

Don't expect your partner to be an expert at sex. Even if he's already slept with other women, everyone's body is different, which means it's important for you to coach him on how you like to be touched. Don't be shy. Letting him know what you love and what you hate is an important part of sex.

Sex shouldn't be treated as a taboo subject. It's an important subject for women to discuss, so that they can treat their bodies right. Do you feel like you've been educated enough about sex?

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Nice article. :)

Taylor, Never said one couldn't have sex without without being in committed relationship . . . That is part of the beauty of the God-given potential we have been given as sexual beings. It is our choice as to when and where we choose to use it. There is power in mastering that potential instead of hooking up with the next partner for a night, week, month, etc. Read the intro and #1 carefully. The implication is clearly there. Many, and that would include all Christians, Muslims and Jews who are practicing their faith believe that marriage is the proper time and place to bring sexual intimacy into a relationship. Men and women who respect themselves and members of the opposite sex, do not objectify others and use them simply for their own self gratification. You have bought into the lie . . . sexual compatibility in the context you have stated is warped. You have turned the precious gift into a mere physical exercise based solely on maximizing pleasure. While that may be part of the union between man and woman - there really is so much more to sex and intimacy. A couple who truly loves each other will work to see that their partner is being taken care of in the bedroom. They will communicate as to what pleases the other. That mutual discovery together is part of the deepening of a relationship between a committed couple. No "slippery slope rhetoric," here . . . Just experience in having learned the difference between a topical relationship and appreciating the beauty when a couple is truly invested.

I'd like to read about sex in your 40's and into the golden years. Sex isn't just a young persons activity. 😀

Many people do not share the same world view . . . Women and men should view sex as secondary to self respect in addition to many other qualities that make an intimate relationship successful. In the opinion of many, much of the material in this post is simply AWFUL!! Jumping in and out of bed with multiple partners in most cases will lead to heartache and a jaded attitude toward members of the opposite sex. A good percentage of men and women in their 20's lack the emotional maturity necessary to see a relationship through the rough times. This cavalier attitude toward sex at an early age sets the template for further frustration. Ladies, any man who respects you will wait until you are both committed to a lifetime together. Don't buy into the lie our society is trying to sell!!

It's a good post , women should take sex just as important as self -respect . They go hand in hand .

Great article. Thank you for sharing 💜

Plus where in this article did it say you have to jump into bed with with many different men? I just saw tips on how to keep a healthy relationship intact while including sex. Slippery slope rhetoric doesn't belong here

Taylor, Really, I didn't bring God into this, you do so indirectly when you commented, "I'm not sure what many this JP is talking about." I merely refuted your observation by including Christians, Muslims and Jews - clearly that qualifies as many millions! You have come full circle and pretty much ended up where I started - that we have differing attitudes on this topic. I respect your right to practice as you wish. You are young and will learn much as you grow in your journey. As you experience some of the inevitable frustration in all relationships, you may find there is a better way.

Agree JP

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