Your crush may be cute, but would he be good for you? You should figure that out before you make a move on him. After all, you don't want to end up with a broken heart. Here are a few qualities you never want in a crush:
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1. Short-tempered
If he gets angry easily, you're always going to be getting into fights. He might even take things a step too far and resort to physical violence. You don't want a man with anger issues.
2. Conceited
He should be confidence, but he shouldn't be conceited. If he thinks he's the best thing in the world, he'll treat you like you're inferior.
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3. Dishonest
You can't have a healthy relationship with a liar. If he's comfortable fibbing about one thing, he'll fib about a lot more things.
4. Unreliable
You need someone you can count on. If you can't ask him for a ride home or to keep a promise, why would you want to date him?
5. Rude
You don't want a man who's rude to waiters, his mother, or you. You're an amazing woman. You deserve a decent guy.
6. Close-minded
There's absolutely no excuse for being close-minded in this day and age. He shouldn't be racist, homophobic, or disrespectful to any other humans.
7. Entitled
If he thinks that he deserves the world, he isn't going to treat you right. He'll assume that you'll never leave him, which means he won't put any effort into the relationship.
8. Critical
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If he criticizes you for the way you dress, speak, or eat, you shouldn't be with him. He should never point out your flaws.
9. Snobby
Snobby people look down on everyone else. They treat you like you're lesser, but healthy relationships are all about equality.
10. Superficial
You don't want a man who's obsessed with his own looks. He'll never let loose and dance in the rain with you, because he'll be too worried about what his hair will look like if he gets it wet.
11. Materialistic
Cell phones and cars aren't the most important things in the world. If he cares about items more than people, you don't need him.
12. Vengeful
If he holds grudges, he could be dangerous. You don't want him to try to get revenge on you after a breakup.
13. Bad Hygiene
He doesn't have to look like a celebrity. Of course, he should keep his teeth brushed and his body clean.
14. Immature
There's nothing wrong with being a kid at heart. However, you don't want someone so immature that you're embarrassed to be seen with him.
15. Manipulative
You don't want anyone who tries to control you. Manipulation is unacceptable.
16. Flakey
If he agrees to go out with you on the weekend, but ends up canceling at the last second, you shouldn't set up another date. If he never follows through on plans, he doesn't care about you enough.
17. Impatient
If he won't wait to have sex with you, leave him in the dust. He should be willing to wait until you're ready to take the next step. He shouldn't be peer pressuring you.
You have to be careful with who you crush on. You don't want to end up getting hurt. Does your crush possess any of these unhealthy qualities?
Comments
Ash: I disagree with number sixteen. What if an emergency came up so he couldn't come? What about a family issue? I'd at least try to make one more date and if he doesn't come, then I would let go. It's not always about the woman, you know. It's not because he doesn't care enough.
Juliette: Confident
Ayaba: My Boyfriend has all the qualities listed😢😥😳
Kat_johnsonXx: Am I the only one who noticed all these Gifs and pictures are from Vampire Diaries?
Emmarachelmay: After reading through those, I've realised how much my ex had all these qualities and how actually, it's his loss not mine!!
Kiana: @Ash Lee that isn't being flakey though. Flakey is where the assumed guy constantly forgoes any outing with you, possibly for friends or because he doesn't think you are worth his time. If it's an event of an emergency, that isn't flakey.
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