We've all been there. Whenever your boyfriend walks into a room, your hands start sweating and your heart won't stop racing. You're so comfortable around each other that it's hard to think of a time when you weren't together. Those are just a few obvious signs that you've fallen *hard*. But trying to figure out how he feels always sends you into Nancy Drew mood. If you're happy with how things are but can't help that little voice that wants to know if your man really feels the same, these surefire signs that he loves you will clear everything up.
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1. You Know You Can Always Look Forward to a "Good Morning" Text, Even if You Go to Sleep Upset
2. When You're out with Your Girls, He'll Stay up Just to Text/tell You "Good Night"
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in context of the article "21 Positive Signs a Guy is in Love with You for Girls Who Can't Tell 🤔 ..." published on women focused blog.
Even if it's late at night, and he's probably exhausted, he stays up just to make sure you get home safely and that the last thing you see before you drift off is a sweet message from him. This thoughtful and consistent action highlights how much he values your safety and well-being, putting your needs above his own sleep or convenience. It's more than just a sweet gesture; it's a clear indicator that he genuinely cares and wants to be a significant part of your life, even during your downtime moments with friends.
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3. He Knows You Have Major Morning Breath Going on but Will Kiss You Anyway
4. He's Not Annoyed (or Pretends He's Not) when You Drag Him to Sephora for the 30th Time. Marry Him Right Now
5. He Understands That PMS is a B*tch and Will do Drugstore Runs without You Asking
6. His Buddies Constantly Make Fun of Him Because He Won't. Shut. up. about You
7. When He's out with His Best Friend, He'll Say "I Was Thinking about You" or "the Three of Us Should [insert Activity] Next Time"
8. He Pays Attention when You Go off on Another 30-minute Rant about Your BFF; Family; Co-worker
9. When You Complain about Your BFF or Family, He Knows Not to Join in. Only You Can do That!
10. (He Also Knows You Don't Really Mean It.)
11. Half of His Facebook Statuses Are Dedicated to Bragging about Your Accomplishments - Big or Small
12. He Doesn't Need to Check His Phone Every Five Seconds when He's with You
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When he's truly into you, his phone becomes an afterthought. Those endless notifications lose their sirens' call as he’s engrossed in every word you say, his attention undivided. It's not just about being polite; rather, it’s a genuine desire to savor the moments with you undistracted. This marks a respect for your presence and an appreciation for the now—a modern-day sign of chivalry in a world often lost to screens.
13. He Talks about Future Plans like They're a Given. "There's This Place I'm Dying to Go to for My Birthday Next Year. You'll Love It."
14. He's Super Close with Your Parents and Siblings. (It's a Bit Embarrassing Just How Much They Love Him.)
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He's the type of guy who effortlessly wins over your family. Whether it's joking around with your dad about sports, chatting with your mom as they prep dinner, or effortlessly bonding with your siblings, his presence is always welcomed. You might even receive texts from your family members asking when he's coming over again! It can be a little embarrassing just how much they adore him, but take it as a sign that he's genuinely invested in knowing the people important to you. This level of closeness shows he's not just in it for you, but for the long haul.
15. Or if They're Not Big Fans of Him, He'll Go out of His Way to Impress Them. All Because He Wants to Make You Happy
16. When You're Not Together, You Have Entire Conversations via Emojis and Gifs
17. You're a Priority to Him, *NOT* an Option
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in his life. He makes time for you, rearranges his schedule, and ensures he’s available when you need him. You don’t have to chase him or fight for his attention because he willingly gives it. When conflicts arise, he’s genuinely attentive and strives to resolve them quickly, proving you’re more than just a fleeting interest. His actions scream reliability and dedication, showing he values and prioritizes your presence. He doesn't leave you wondering where you stand; instead, he consistently reinforces that you are a significant part of his life, making you feel special and cherished every single day.
18. Exhibit a: It's Already Assumed That You're His Permanent plus One to All Family Events
19. Exhibit B: He Can Be Super Pissed at You but Still Looks out for You
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Even when you're in the middle of a heated argument, he'll still make sure you get home safely. Maybe he'll shoot you a text to see if you arrived alright or offer to walk you to your door despite the tension. This is a huge sign that he truly cares about your well-being, even when he's upset. It's easy to act loving when everything is peachy, but it's a whole different story when emotions are running high. Being able to put his anger aside to ensure you're safe speaks volumes about his genuine feelings for you.
20. Exhibit C: He Can Build a Shrine with All of the Things He's Saved from Your Relationship. Funny Birthday Cards, Gag Gifts, He's Kept Them All
21. He May Not Say "I Love You" Often, but He'll Go out of His Way to Make Sure That You Feel It
Comments
Aveen: This list is for clingy insecure boyfriends lol. If mine did that I would get him some balls for his birthday 😂😂😂
Anna: My boyfriend does all this :D
Sammi: handsome for a school play and I asked if he thought it meant anything he looked at the ground and didn't answer. it's summer and we haven't talked. Can someone please help me😭😭???
Sammi: the next day I asked him why he was ignoring me he said he wasn't then started talking with me. i kept taking his glue stick ((for a projected we were partners)) he would ask for it and always touch me when he toke it from me. The I had to call him/
Aliza: These aren't all accurate, gals. We all know that love stories aren't the same! :)
Sammi: My crush found out I like him along with my whole school😓 he used to wink at me and talk in private then this happened he started ignoring me and one of my friends ((Who's a boy)) got angry cause he was treating me bad he yelled at him and then -
Aliza: My boyfriend loves me so much and I do too, he's my bestfriend. And y'know, ther: a lot of things that this list says that he doesn't do, and a lot more that this list doesn't say but he actually does. ☺️
Ashlie: If you have any feeling whatsoever for your friend, I suggest you pursue them this summer!
Ashlie: Hey girl, this guy is playing with your feelings. Although, it seems to me that you're overlooking someone close to you who obviously likes you and knows how to treat you right, your friend who stood up for you.
KITAMARI: I'll start finding a new boo.
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