--- title: "17 Sex Tips for Women Who like to Take Control ..." description: "Get on Top; Use Handcuffs; Use a Blindfold; Tell Him Where to Touch You; Tell Him How Fast to Move; More ..." url: "https://love.allwomenstalk.com/17-sex-tips-for-women-who-like-to-take-control/" category: "love" last_updated: "2026-06-02" --- # 17 Sex Tips for Women Who like to Take Control ... If you like to be the one with all the power, then there are a few things you should be doing in the bedroom in order to have the best experience possible. Here are a few sex tips for women who like to take control: ## 1. Get on Top ![Get on Top](https://img.allw.mn/content/vf/vj/uujzbr55573c74afa399c827907865_500x260.gif) If you want to control the pace and depth, then you should be on top of him. That way, you can control everything for a change. ## 2. Use Handcuffs ![Use Handcuffs](https://img.allw.mn/content/td/hc/iqc79bji573c74afaa9d6954423126_500x199.gif) If you buy a pair of flimsy handcuffs from an adult shop, you can tie your boyfriend's hands behind his back. That way, he won't be able to touch you. You'll be the one making all the moves. ## 3. Use a Blindfold ![Use a Blindfold](https://img.allw.mn/content/hn/cw/iw68p9h0573c74b1938e8595085480_500x281.gif) Grab a tie or a scarf to wrap around his eyes. That way, he won't be able to see where you're about to kiss him or touch him. It'll all be a surprise. ## 4. Tell Him Where to Touch You ![Tell Him Where to Touch You](https://img.allw.mn/content/cj/l1/lvez7r1r573c74afee145632879911_500x232.gif) Don't be afraid to boss him around. Tell him exactly what you want him to do to you and when you want him to do it. ## 5. Tell Him How Fast to Move ![Tell Him How Fast to Move](https://img.allw.mn/content/x1/bg/p8vmjypk5617c4eb9ca90612836223_500x281.gif) If he's the one on top, then you should give him directions like "slower," "faster," or "harder." That way, he'll know what you want from him. ## 6. Initiate It ![Initiate It](https://img.allw.mn/content/r8/eh/qxttlbpg573c74b5e80e3682550736_500x281.gif) You don't have to wait for him to jump on top of you. You can climb on his lap and start kissing instead. ## 7. Take His Clothes off for Him ![Take His Clothes off for Him](https://img.allw.mn/content/lw/lv/ykqrh8va573c74b0b0c50160948241_500x252.gif) Don't wait for him to lift his shirt off of his head. Do it for him. Then take your own clothes off. ## 8. Pick the Sex Potions ![Pick the Sex Potions](https://img.allw.mn/content/s8/tp/esuy2q80573c74b10bf97422743676_500x202.gif) Tell him what position you want him to throw you into. The more you try, the better. ## 9. Pick the Place to Have Sex ![Pick the Place to Have Sex](https://img.allw.mn/content/kl/qz/qde6rgf0573c74b138641690036563_450x242.gif) Tell him that you want to have sex in a different room for a change. He won't argue with you. ## 10. Grab His Hair ![Grab His Hair](https://img.allw.mn/content/ov/d8/jubetbwp573c74b2108ea995076878_500x249.gif) Don't stick to running your hands through his hair. Grab it and pull, too. That way, you can control where his head goes. ## 11. Push His Head ![Push His Head](https://img.allw.mn/content/hf/ie/zjrobeip573c74b19251a443275132_500x240.gif) If you want him to give you oral, push his head in that direction. He won't mind. ## 12. Hold Him down ![Hold Him down](https://img.allw.mn/content/aj/af/smey5ytu573c74b2d310a155023275_360x202.gif) You don't have to use handcuffs. You can always use your hands to pin his wrists to the bed instead. ## 13. Give Him Oral ![Give Him Oral](https://img.allw.mn/content/st/xp/wgr9bpwg573c74b261730303462237_500x221.gif) You're in complete control when you give him oral. You can give him pleasure or take away his pleasure at any time. ## 14. Use a Ball Gag [https://media.giphy.com/media/4zCGrvPDVtwac/giphy.gif](https://media.giphy.com/media/4zCGrvPDVtwac/giphy.gif) Use that blindfold from earlier and wrap it around his mouth instead. That way, he won't be able to speak. ## 15. Don’t Let Him Kiss You ![Don’t Let Him Kiss You](https://img.allw.mn/content/re/id/acktyxot573c74b23e2cd461696196_250x141.gif) When his lips come close to yours, pull away. It's the perfect way to tease him. It'll drive him crazy. ## 16. Use Toys on Him ![Use Toys on Him](https://img.allw.mn/content/fy/t6/uhsk1xig573c74b301239350418316_500x278.gif) Women aren't the only ones who can use sex toys. Men can use them, too. You can even try using your own toys on him (as long as they've been washed). ## 17. Tell Him You’re in Charge [https://media.giphy.com/media/HoKIaRrPN0HL2/giphy.gif](https://media.giphy.com/media/HoKIaRrPN0HL2/giphy.gif) Make sure he knows that you're the boss. He has to obey your every command. Now you'll be able to turn your boyfriend on more than you ever have before. 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