Spanking has become a popular form of BDSM play in recent years, and is often a great way to add some spice to a relationship. For those who are new to spanking, it can be intimidating to start. This guide will give you the basics of spanking pleasure for beginners, so you can start exploring this exciting form of play.

When it comes to spanking, safety is key. Start slowly and make sure to check in with your partner often to ensure they are comfortable. A great place to start is the thutt, which is the area between the top of your thighs and the bottom of your cheeks. This area is nice and soft, and naturally fatty, so it’s a good place to start spanking.

When spanking, it’s important to use the right implements. Beginners should start with something soft, like a feather or a flogger. As you become more experienced, you can move up to harder implements, such as a paddle or a crop. It’s important to make sure you use the right amount of force when spanking, as too much can be painful and damaging.

When selecting toys, it's crucial to consider material and flexibility. Silicone, leather, and wood each offer different sensations. Start with softer materials and graduate to firmer textures as you grow more comfortable. Remember: communication is key. Discuss boundaries and safe words before experimenting. Safety should always be your top priority, along with mutual pleasure and consent. Happy exploring!