Learning all of the different ways to attract a Libra is not easy, but it is so, so worth it! This is a sign that loves open-minded people, they want you to act fast and you've got to understand exactly what you are getting into. If you've been trying to attract a Libra but don't know if you are going about it all wrong, don't worry. Just take a look at my top 7 ways to attract your favorite Libra – male or female!
1. Act Fast
By far, one of the top ways to attract a Libra is to move fast. This is a sign that is a natural flirt and you don't want to wait around … only to have someone else snatch up your crush! Libras are a sign that loves to flirt and truthfully, they are rarely without a date, so if your crush is single and he or she is a Libra, act fast!
2. Libras Are Indecisive
The hugest thing that you have to remember about Libras is that they don't decide things right away. They like to keep their options open for as long as possible and truthfully, they don't like to rush into something right away. They like to date … a lot, but a relationship is going to take a lot of building, so keep that in mind!
3. Politeness is a Must
This is a sign that can't be with someone that is snobby or rude. Politeness goes a very, very long way with this sign! They love compliments and they really like to be shown the respect that they show you. Holding doors and opening car doors are huge for this sign!
4. They Love Open-Minded People
Remember how I mentioned that they love open-minded people? Well, Libras aren't into people that are narrow-minded and aren't willing to consider the outrageous or the off-the-wall. You've got to consider all of your options and then open your mind a little more to be with this sign!
Ah, the politeness is huge for them, but when you listen to them? I mean really, really listen to a Libra? They melt right in your hands! Listening involves remembering too, so if your Libra-crush mentions that they love roses … what's the next flower you are going to get them? Roses, of course!
6. Personal Attraction is Important
A Libra is a sign that loves themselves most of the time and they like to take pride in what they look like – so that means that they want their partner to do the same. They want their partner to look good and show off all of the right assets. That doesn't mean you have to be dressed to the nines all of the time, but keep it clean and tidy!
7. Become Their BFF First
Finally, a Libra loves building a base of friendship before they just jump into a relationship. Trust me on this, you don't want to ever assume that you and your crush are a 'thing,' until your crush actually states that you are. For now, concentrate on being friends first!
8. Inner Beauty
As much as Libras enjoy dating people who dress well, inner beauty is far more important to them than outer beauty. That means that you shouldn't stress if you don't look like a supermodel. Libras like kindhearted people more than they like sexy ones.
9. Stand out
Libras tend to have a lot of admirers, which means that you need to do something special if you want to get their attention. Since they have so many options of whom to date, you need to give them a reason to pick you over all of the others.
10. Stress Free
Nobody enjoys being stressed out, but Libras absolutely hate it. If you want to land a Libra, you can't be the type of person who attracts drama. You need to be able to create a relaxed atmosphere where the Libra will feel at peace.
11. Don't Take Advantage
Libras are in love with the idea of love, which means that they tend to fall easily. If a Libra agrees to be in a relationship with you, don't treat them poorly. They may stay with you, because their judgement is clouded by their feelings, so treat them the way they deserve.
12. Court Them
Libras love attention, so don't be afraid of overly romantic gestures, because they're the way to win a Libra's heart. They want their egos to be stroked, so you need to show them how highly you think of them. If you do, they won't be able to resist taking you on a date.
13. Show off Your Money
If you have a lot of money, show it off. Libras like to go out to fancy restaurants and to receive diamond jewelry. They don't need to be with someone who is rich, but they'd certainly prefer it. So if you have money to spare, blow it on them.
14. Show Your Smarts
Libras love intellectual conversation. If you're on a date with one, make sure to keep the topics interesting and mentally stimulating. If you do, they'll realize just how smart you are and won't be able to resist you.
15. Show You're Faithful
As soon as you meet a Libra, you'll want to find a way to prove that you're loyal and honest. They absolutely despise cheating, so you want to show them that you'd never do such a horrible thing. If they find out that you've cheated in the past, they won't want anything to do with you.
16. Communication and Compromise
Libras are peaceful, so they hate fighting. However, they want their partners to communicate honestly with them. So if you have a problem, bring it up right away so that it can be dealt with and won't turn into a huge argument down the road.
If you possess a skill that your Libra partner doesn't have, offer to teach them. They love learning new things and will think highly of you for being able to pass over your wisdom. So don't be afraid to play the role of the teacher.
Libras love compliments, so flatter them whenever you can. Don't be afraid of going overboard, because the more compliments, the merrier. They'll get a kick out of it, so don't be shy.
19. Show You're Serious
Libras don't want to have a one-night-stand or a summer fling. They want to be in a loving, committed relationship. If you're trying to land a date with a Libra, make it clear that you want to be with them for a very long time, and not just for a few weeks of fun.
So, these are just a few of the ways that you can hook your Libra-crush onto you! Remember, it's all about building boundaries, friendships and being polite. So, have you ever dated a Libra? How was it?
This article was written in collaboration with editor Holly Riordan.