Scorpios are a sign that I absolutely love, but learning how to attract a Scorpio isn't easy. They are tedious, they are hard to gain attention from and they really want someone to be truthful and upfront, so they can seem a bit unapproachable. However, if you have a huge crush on a Scorpio and have absolutely no idea how to go about learning how to attract a Scorpio, take a look below! I've got the top 7 tips to attract your Scorpio-crush that really work!
Snapshot Survey
Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Please subscribe for your personalized newsletter:
Air of Mystery
The Scorpio is a sign that loves mystery and they want someone to keep them guessing. They aren't easily hooked so that means that, in order to attract a Scorpio, you'll really have to make sure to keep an air of mystery around you. Games are something that really, really appeal to this particular sign, which means that you'll have to work to keep them interested and to really attract them!
/filters:quality(70)/thumbs/97/qwzqu83v6d32pa2xe0eg6_1080x1350.jpg)
Don't Make It Easy
With a Scorpio, it is all about the challenge and about capturing something, this is what they live for – so, don't make it easy. Don't automatically start acting like you like them, instead make them work for your attraction. If you play hard to get and if you are the one that has the ball constantly in your court – it'll attract your Scorpio-crush easily!
Creating that sense of pursuit can ignite the Scorpio's interest even further. Mystery and intrigue are your allies, so don't be afraid to be a bit enigmatic. Share snippets of your personality and life, dropping hints that leave them wanting more. Remember, a Scorpio is drawn to individuals who are both confident and self-assured. So, let that confidence shine and maintain an air of independence. They'll find the challenge irresistible and will be more compelled to chase after a person who isn't readily available.
/filters:quality(70)/thumbs/95/oc1ak5k2ecghsjlhjn91_1080x1350.jpg)
Being Honest Goes a Long Way
Being completely and totally upfront with this particular sign is so, so important. They don't like fraud and they certainly don't want someone that isn't going to be honest with them. If you've been hiding something from your Scorpio-crush, why not give it up and see how they react?
/filters:quality(70)/thumbs/94/0gl37i5om1mutqbl640lgh_1080x1350.jpg)
Be Firm
Ah, the firmness factor. This is something else that this particular sign loves to see and is completely attracted to. They love to see someone that is comfortable enough in their skin to be firm, to be confident, to really go after exactly what they want and not be scared of it.
To a Scorpio, indecision can be a turn-off. They are drawn to partners who display conviction in their choices. If you want to captivate a Scorpio's attention, show them you mean business. Stand by your opinions and values with steadfast certainty. Don’t waver under pressure—Scorpios will respect you more for it. Your unwavering stance demonstrates not only self-assurance but also integrity, something highly prized by this perceptive zodiac. Boldness in spirit and clarity in your pursuits will be the beacon that draws a Scorpio to you.
/filters:quality(70)/thumbs/69/qc90z5uhe1ab62thoafr7_1080x1349.jpg)
Hard to Get is a Great Game
Remember when I said that being hard to get is an awesome way to gain their attraction? Well, it's true! Playing games with your Scorpio is absolutely going to attract them to you. Remember though, when playing games, make good on every promise you give up in the game and don't play head-games, just do enough to earn their attraction!
/filters:quality(70)/thumbs/52/newr9ltb4tdw9vrefjgg1_1080x1349.jpg)
If you have a harem of 40 women, you never get to know any of them very well.
Don't Tell Them What to do
One thing that you've got to remember about a Scorpio is that they don't like to be told what to do. Sounds like every sign, right? No, actually, this particular sign hates, hates, hates to be told no and told that they can or can't do something – and also that they should be doing something else. Give them their space and don't boss them around and you'll gain their attraction!
/filters:quality(70)/thumbs/00/v08v0ilf0g05nvfa84t8o2_1080_1244.jpg)
Be Flirty
Finally, flirting goes a really, really long way with Scorpios! They love to be flirted with and love to do the flirting. So, up your game in flirting and you'll see just how quickly you can attract a Scorpio and how soon you'll be calling him or her your partner!
Scorpios are a hard sign to wrap your head around, but once you do, they are amazing. A little stubborn, but ever-so-loyal. So, have you ever successfully attracted a Scorpio?
Feedback Junction
Where Thoughts and Opinions Converge