2. Friends with Benefits

A lot of people say you can't be friends with benefits without someone developing feelings, which does tend to be true. But what is going on before those feelings are involved is simply a platonic need to fill ones craving for sex.

If you both find each other attractive, and can turn each other on, then why not enjoy the benefits? When the feelings do become involved it becomes more then just a physical act. But again, they are feelings and emotions which is what love is. So just remember if you want to enjoy the friends part, stick to keeping a clear vision that it is not a relationship! Remember, having fears of being intimate is something that everyone deals with.

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Comments:

Heather Jensen
Hi Saki! It sounds like he wants more and more sex and he is just trying to get you back into bed. Truthfully, I think that you can totally do better! ;)
saki
i think #3 is very true. in my experience i have noticed that many boys are hard for hours when we are together, just sitting there having a normal conversation or some other non-sexual activity somet...
Lyndsie Robinson
Katie, I would definitely cut him off. He's playing a huge double standard, and remember that any guy who will cheat on a girlfriend with you will cheat on you, too. You definitely don't need that, ...
Katie
I've been having sexual relations with this guy for like two years. I really like him. We even had sex when he had a girlfriend. He didn't care though. He always acts like he doesn't care about me but...
Heather Jensen
Agreed! When you do love someone, it is more than just sex. :) Thanks for the great comment!
Cindy Pham
It was confused about sex and love, but the main point is feeling. I think when u love someone is not sex only but feeling u have for each other. Not feeling then the sex just action to release u r better not without it
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