7. Chemistry

Think of the movie, 'How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days' where Matthew McConaghey and Kate Hudson have that epic moment in the shower where you literally see them fall in love with each other. It is not the most romantic love story but it is one I feel most women can relate too. There's that moment in a relationship when you connect with your partner on a new level, "love making" as most people call it. That chemistry is something two people can create only when you have love between you two.

Of course you can have sexual attraction to each other and a spark. That's what makes sex hot and steamy, but it is not the full definition of lovemaking. There's all different levels of chemistry with someone, its just seeing where you truly connect.

A lot of times girls get confused with the differences between sex and love, but I hope these are helpful in relating to your experiences. With these in mind, whether you are single or in a relationship, think about how you feel when you are with someone and if its truly love or truly a hot, steamy, passionate sex endeavor? Have you ever confused sex with love?

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Comments:

Krislott
So I have a really close friend that I have been hanging out with more and more and he is always there for me and cares more than anyone I know well I'm going through a separation and he just went thr...
avisto44uk
Imagine life without sex
Megan
Their is a big difference ! X
Brianna
That was a great article! I have been with my boyfriend for several months now and The sex we have isn't just sex; it's love.
Heather Jensen
Hi Saki! It sounds like he wants more and more sex and he is just trying to get you back into bed. Truthfully, I think that you can totally do better! ;)
saki
i think #3 is very true. in my experience i have noticed that many boys are hard for hours when we are together, just sitting there having a normal conversation or some other non-sexual activity somet...
Lyndsie Robinson
Katie, I would definitely cut him off. He's playing a huge double standard, and remember that any guy who will cheat on a girlfriend with you will cheat on you, too. You definitely don't need that, ...
Katie
I've been having sexual relations with this guy for like two years. I really like him. We even had sex when he had a girlfriend. He didn't care though. He always acts like he doesn't care about me but...
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