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Catch Girlfriend Cheating - 21 Signs ...

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Catch Girlfriend Cheating - 21 Signs ...

Catch girlfriend cheating with these simple signs! Cheating in a relationship is a tricky subject. It can be difficult to figure out for sure if she's cheating, and if you confront her about it and turn out wrong, the stakes are high. But don't worry—we're here with these 21 sure signs that will help you find out for sure without putting your relationship on the line!

One way to catch girlfriend cheating is just by asking her directly and watching her reaction. If she looks shifty, does not make eye contact and gets nervous, you will know that something is definitely not right. In some cases the girl would even admit to the guy's face that she's been unfaithful.

Another sure-fire way to catch girlfriend cheating is by watching her behavior. If she seems distant, distracted, unavailable emotionally, less ready for intimacy than usual, she might be cheating on you!

A final way is by catching her in the act, but that's the most radical and painful method most people do not want to go through. So, to catch girlfriend cheating without too much damage to your self esteem, check out our list of 21 sure signs she's been unfaithful:

Table of contents:

  1. Her Calls and Texts Are Less Frequent
  2. More than One Account on Facebook or Instagram
  3. Seems Distracted when You're Together
  4. Texts and Calls Him (or Her) More Often
  5. Dresses Differently
  6. Cancels Your Plans Regularly
  7. Changes Her Passwords
  8. Lies to You about Where She's Going
  9. Hangs out with Friends More Often
  10. She is Texting Someone a Lot
  11. Treats You Differently or Unkindly when She's with You or when She Isn't with You
  12. If Her Attitude towards You Has Changed for the Worse
  13. She Guards Her Phone
  14. She's Always Playing Games or Sending Messages
  15. She Always Has an Excuse for Not Hanging out with You
  16. She Leaves the Room to Speak on the Phone
  17. She Has New Accessories or Accessories She Doesn't Usually Wear
  18. She Has Tinder App on Her Phone
  19. She's Even More Flirtatious than Usual
  20. She Avoids Intimacy with You
  21. She Doesn't Feel the Same Way about You Anymore (or at Least Doesn't Act the Same Way)

1 Her Calls and Texts Are Less Frequent

Catch girlfriend cheating when she's using her phone. If she's cheating, she'll call and text you less than usual. However, when together with her, you'll see her checking out her cell phone more. She might be using it to text message her new crush, she might even have an actual boyfriend on the side. If you notice that she doesn't call as often as before, she doesn't answer your messages for extended periods of time, that's a clear sign that she's cheating!

2 More than One Account on Facebook or Instagram

If your girlfriend has more than one Facebook or Insta account (meaning the same person has multiple accounts), that can be an indicator of cheating. She might be having a very hot back and forth DM-ing with the new guy on her 2nd account without the fear of being caught. You can catch girlfriend cheating just watching how she uses her Facebook and Instagram - to see if she switches accounts at some point.

3 Seems Distracted when You're Together

If your girlfriend looks completely disinterested when you're out with her, if she keeps checking her phone, keeps messaging someone, she is definitely cheating on you.

4 Texts and Calls Him (or Her) More Often

When your girlfriend is spending too much time texting or calling someone else, especially of the opposite sex, that's a huge red flag!

5 Dresses Differently

If your girlfriend dresses in a very different manner compared to before, if she makes an effort to look sexier, this can be an indicator that she's cheating.

6 Cancels Your Plans Regularly

If she cancels your plans far too often or has a new schedule, that can be a sign that she's cheating. Catch girlfriend cheating showing up at the place she said she would be, when canceling on you and see for yourself if she is there and with whom.

7 Changes Her Passwords

If she changes her password without telling you, then that's another indicator that something may be wrong! If you had a trusting relationship and everyone knew everyones' passwords, why would she go intro trouble of changing hers now? There is definitely something she does not want you to see. Ask her for the new password, if she makes an excuse, confront her about the possibility of cheating. If it's nothing, she'll hand over an unlocked phone no questions asked.

8 Lies to You about Where She's Going

Now, this is especially common if you're out on a date. If your girlfriend tells you that she has plans with a friend but then comes home an hour later with no explanation, don't be mad—be worried. You might also casually ask the friend, with whom, allegedly she's been with, what they did and with whom at that time. Even looking at the friend's social media can be enough to realize that they are not are reliable alibi, since they were doing something completely different in a completely different location.

9 Hangs out with Friends More Often

If she's hanging out with her friends more often than usual, especially if there are any friends she potentially might be interested in, she may be cheating! When you're at home watching TV, text her and find out which of her friends she's with now and later on get more info from the friends themselves about what was going down that day!

10 She is Texting Someone a Lot

If you notice that she is texting someone a lot, smiling, laughing, trying to do in a secret manner, without flashing the screen, this could be a sign of cheating! Many people change the name of the guy to a girl's name, so that the contact looks innocent, make sure to take a peek at the conversation itself. A friend saved "Mary - Library" can turn out to be a hot guy she's been hooking up with since her vacation.

11 Treats You Differently or Unkindly when She's with You or when She Isn't with You

If your girlfriend starts treating you differently than before or seems to treat everyone else well but treats you badly—that's not good! It looks like she's getting ready to dump you and there might be someone already on the horizon. Many women do not like to jump ship until they already have a new leading man in their lives. Watch out!

12 If Her Attitude towards You Has Changed for the Worse

If your girlfriend has been acting meaner towards you than before, think about it. If you've been your best self and she still seems to be uninterested, ungrateful and dismissive, this might be a psychological reaction she's having to cover up the guilt feelings of a cheater.

13 She Guards Her Phone

If your girlfriend keeps her phone on lock or blocks you on social networking sites like Facebook, she is definitely cheating on you! Even having her phone close by at all times and making sure you have zero access to it is a clear sign of a cheater.

14 She's Always Playing Games or Sending Messages

If your girlfriend always plays games or sends messages to someone else, this could be a sign of cheating! Messaging is a primary way of communication. Especially, if this is happening at night, you must be ready for the fact that she is cheating on you.

15 She Always Has an Excuse for Not Hanging out with You

If she never has time for you or never takes any time out of her busy schedule to hang out with you, there might be a problem. She is definitely not sitting at home alone. But who is she with? This is a completely different question. 

16 She Leaves the Room to Speak on the Phone

If your girlfriend leaves the room to speak on the phone, that should be a clue! In a trustworthy relationship, no-one leaves the room to speak to another person. The only exception - a work call while there is a party or loud music blasting. Otherwise, you have a cheater on your hands.

17 She Has New Accessories or Accessories She Doesn't Usually Wear

If she's got a brand new accessory that you've never seen her wear before, that's definitely a red flag for cheating! Either it's a gift from the new guy or something she bought to look more stylish, I'd start watching her closely.

18 She Has Tinder App on Her Phone

If your girlfriend has Tinder on her phone, she may be cheating on you! If she tells you she downloaded it as a joke with her girlfriends or they were trying to find a guy for one of her single friends, these excuses do not stand a chance. If she has a hook-up app on her phone - she is going to use it.

19 She's Even More Flirtatious than Usual

If your girlfriend is flirting with everyone, odds are that she's not just doing it because she feels like it. And if there's a guy she's always talking to or texting, you might want to consider a few things. If you don't want to ruin the relationship—just be sure to listen carefully and go from there!

20 She Avoids Intimacy with You

If you can't kiss your girlfriend and she avoids intimacy with you when she's around, that's a definite indication that something is wrong. Usually, when women are cheating, they would have much less interest sexually in the person to whom they have been unfaithful. 

21 She Doesn't Feel the Same Way about You Anymore (or at Least Doesn't Act the Same Way)

This one can be tough to detect, but it happens more often than you think! Don't get mad or accuse her of cheating on you—just look at everything objectively and then decide what to do next. Often it's just a feeling. You feel that she is just not into you any more. And that's OK.

Cheating girlfriends are not the end of the world. It's disappointing for sure, but it's better to know now than later. You do not want to spend months or years in a relationship that does not work. The sooner you catch girlfriend cheating - the sooner you will be free for the person who will appreciate you and love you for who you are.

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