There are ways to be a better flirt that involve enhancing some of the qualities you already have. Flirting is an art, which means it helps to practice. You won't become great at it, unless you try again and again, without stressing out when you fail. Here are some of the ways to be a better flirt by using your best qualities to your advantage:
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1. Patience
You can't walk up to a guy, smile a little, and expect him to be putty in your hands. Sure, some men will fall for you at first sight, but others will want to get to know you. You might not get his phone number during your first conversation. It could take a few weeks of flirting to achieve your goal. One of the ways to be a better flirt is to be patient, because nothing good happens without effort.
2. Confidence
If you're slouching, with your head down, then no one is going to be able to see your pretty face. Keep your head held high so that you're able to make eye contact with other gorgeous guys and gals. Everybody loves confidence, so think about all of your great traits, and act like you're a prize--because you are!
3. Adventurousness
No one wants to spend their entire life doing the same things day after day. People like a bit of variety, so if you show your adventurous side, you'll be enticing. A day with you is a day unlike any other.
4. Courage
It takes guts to put yourself out there. You need courage in order to approach a hot guy and show your interest. Don't worry about being rejected, because another cutie might see how brave you were, and try to flirt with you.
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5. Attentiveness
No matter how cute a guy is, pay attention to what he's saying to you. You can't reply with something clever if you don't have a clue what he's talking about. Men like a pretty face, but you'll never end up in a relationship with him if you aren't able to communicate.
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6. Sincerity
You don't like talking to liars, do you? When you flirt with someone, they should trust that your words are true. If they don't, then it'll be the last conversation you two will ever have. However, if they believe that your compliments are genuine, you might have a chance at a new relationship.
7. Playfulness
You can't flirt by being super serious all of the time. You need to tease him and act a little childish every once in a while. He'll love the lightheartedness. It'll show him how much fun you are to be around.
8. Creativity
You shouldn't stick to cliché compliments. When you like someone, you'll have plenty of good things to say about them, so don't tell him something boring like that you like his eye color or the size of his muscles. Pick out something unique to him to compliment, and he'll be impressed you noticed.
9. Flexibility
Every guy is different, so you can't expect to use the same flirting techniques on everyone. You have to be willing to alter your approach. Don't be stubborn by refusing to change your ways.
Flirting is fun when you find the right partner. Don't be shy, and go chat it up with a cutie! Do you have any flirting moves that work?
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Buschgirl1: Francesca if you are interested in him, why not ask him out for lunch sometime. Don't wait for him to ask.
Francesca: I have been trying to get flirty with this guy, he treats me differently than the other girls at my church. It was awkward last Sunday, our conversation started with a hug but it ended with a hard high-five. I don't know if he did that cause he was nervous or what. But I don't know how to get him to ask me out; I have waited for 7 months. I need help understanding him.
Ciara: this article is perfect, even though I'm sure most if us subconsciously do a majority of these things 🌸 definitely worth a like and a repost! Woo
Athirah: Love this article! Will definitely try them on my crush
LSAdeleye: Is it just me or is it really hard to put urslef out their when u have been 'rejected' a couple of times? ... I'm always positive and don't judge another man based on the previous one but I've noticed that I reserve myself more
Francesca: He's a leader at my church, so I don't want him to think I am hitting on him. And I am kinda of old school so I want him to approach me and ask me.
seabee: having a hard time flirting with a shy guy. he doesn't seem at first like he would be shy but I think until he opens up, he is quiet. he has been coming into my place of work for months now. i mustered up courage and asked if we could hang out sometime and got his number. what comes next?
Kisseychik: hmmm... must do it!! lolzz thanks
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