Going throw a breakup is difficult, especially if you are looking for reasons to take him back. If you feel like you've made a mistake by going through the breakup, there are tons of reasons to take him back that are legit. So ladies, let's take a look at some of the reasons to take him back that make the most sense. After all, you don't want to regret a relationship just because you don't think that you two mesh well together!
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1. He Has Built Trust Back
Let's say that he has done something that makes you not trust him. Let's say that he has worked really hard throughout the breakup to gain that trust back. I think that this is one of the reasons to take him back that makes a lot of sense. Trust is a really hard thing to gain back, but it can be done and if he's taken the time to do it, why not see if he has taken the time to learn his lesson too?
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Trust is an important factor in any relationship, and rebuilding it can take a lot of effort. If he has taken the time to rebuild the trust that was lost, it is a sign that he is serious about making things work. He may have also learned from his mistakes and is willing to make changes to ensure that the relationship works this time around. Additionally, it shows that he is willing to put in the effort to make the relationship work. This is an important factor to consider when deciding whether or not to take him back.
2. You Love Him
This one is hard, you might still be in love with him and feel that this is one of the major reasons to take him back and it could be, but be careful. Some food for thought ladies, how long has it been since the breakup? Did you give yourself time to grieve the relationship? Did you give yourself time to get over him? Do you still feel in love with him? Don't immediately take him back just because you love him, think about it before hand and be careful!
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3. You Regret Breaking up with Him
When you're going through a breakup, you are going to have regrets. Whether it is a regret that you've been with him at all or a regret that you've broken up with him. If it is the latter though, is it a strong regret? Do you feel like you've made a huge mistake? Do you constantly feel like he is the one and you are missing out? This could absolutely be one of the reasons to take him back and to really make sure that you two are supposed to be together.
4. You Can't Get over Him
This is another one of those reasons to take him back that you're going to have to be very careful with. Again, how much time has passed since the breakup? Do you feel like you'll never be able to get over him and that you're going to regret breaking up with him? Really think about this one before you take him back.
5. You've Gotten past What Made You Break up
What caused the breakup? Was there something specific that caused it and have you move past it so much so that it doesn't even matter anymore? Was it something really stupid that's making you regret the entire breakup in general? This could absolutely be one of the reasons to take him back.
6. He is Consistent
Some guys are flaky and want to break up and get back together a million times over. If your guy is consistent and really adamant that he wants you back because he loves you, if he has earned your trust back and you feel that the relationship is right for you, it could be one of the reasons to take him back.
7. He Has Changed
Finally, this one is unlikely, but it could happen, if you've seen a huge change in your man, it absolutely could make all of the difference in the world! Men are hard pressed to change typically, but if your guy has changed just because of you, it could be worth looking into!
Breaking up and dealing with everything that a breakup is attached to it is hard. It can even be unbearable, but if you feel that you've got a reason to take him back, go for it! So ladies, what other reasons to take him back can you think of?
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mimi: I want him back but I'm not too sure if he wants me back? When we see each other we make eye contact, and sometimes i catch him looking at me. One of my close (girl)friends said that he doesn't care about me anymore. I also told him on fb that i liked him and i need time to get over him, but he just replied ":(" and then he went offline. I really don't know if he still likes me or not? I broke up with him a month ago, i regret that moment since the day i did it :/ I don't know what to do, could someone maybe help me? thank you xx
Anonymous: Nice reasons sista!
Amanda: There's no real proof he's changed. There's only proof that he can pretend he's changed. and how exactly has be earned that trust back? If you're broken up, what exactly can he do to earn it back?
Autumn: he wants me back but idk if i should because of what people might say
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