If you're in a new relationship and are looking for tips for a new relationship that actually make sense and work, you've come to the right place! Girls, new relationships are so hard to figure out! You've got this person, that you like (maybe love!) and don't know exactly how to act around. Well, my tips for a new relationship should help coast you through all of the crap of a new relationship and into the lovey-dovey stuff!
1. Don't Overstep Boundaries
The very first of my top 7 tips for a new relationship all boils down to overstepping boundaries. If you are constantly stepping over his boundaries that he's laid and you are constantly crossing the line with comments or even with too much PDA, that's a problem. Remember, this is something that you should be discussing right up front girls!
2. Don't Smother
Being too clingy and too smothering is an instant turn-off and truthfully, what guy would want to be with a girl that clings too much? In turn, what girl would want to be with a guy that clings too much? Just remember, it's a new relationship, that doesn't mean that you have to constantly be around one another or cling to one another.
3. Be Open and Honest
Always, in any relationship at any stage, you should be completely open and completely honest with your partner. After all, you don't want to be caught in a lie and then lose that trust. So start building the trust, keep it and don't lie. It isn't worth it in the end, trust me.
4. Keep Flirting
Just because you caught your boyfriend or girlfriend doesn't mean that you want to end all of the flirting, stop all of the romance and cut off everything that made you want to be in a relationship! Instead, keep up the flirting, be playful, keep your date nights as they are. Keep the spice girls!
5. Don't Assume
The biggest problem in my relationship, even though we've been together for 6 years all boils down to me assuming things. Never, ever assume anything in a relationship. Don't assume that your partner doesn't want to go out, just because they are complaining or assume that your girlfriend doesn't want to hang out because she is on her period. Ask before assuming!
6. Be Generous
When you're in a brand new relationship, you've got to be generous. Be generous with your time, your money (to a certain point!) and also sharing things. You've got to be open and share your feelings. This will create a foundation between the two of you that is hard to break!
7. Fight Fair
Finally, even though you are in a new relationship, there are going to be fights. It happens girls! Don't stress, just make sure that you are fighting fair and that you aren't being mean to one another. Fighting fair might be hard, but it's so worth it in the end and less feelings are hurt! I know it took me a while to learn this one, but once I did, it was so much better in my relationship!
So girls, these are all of my tips for a new relationship. Do you have anymore to share? New relationships might be a little bit scary, but they are so much fun too!