Although many man like lingerie of any sort, sometimes it can be good to get a few tips on things like colour and cut as well as several other things we wonder about when it comes to how to drive him crazy! Above all, though, just remember to feel comfortable in your own skin and have fun with it! 😉 😘 ❤️
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1. Tone Colours down
If you thought the brighter the better then it might be time to think again! When it comes to lingerie, simple colours are often the best approach! Believe me when I say you're better off avoiding anything too bright and neons are also a no-no...enough said!
Oh, it's so much fun to pick something that makes you feel confident and fabulous! Go for something you love and feel comfortable in. Men love confidence, so whatever you choose, wear it with pride!
You know, they say classic red is always a hit, but it really depends on what you feel amazing in. If you love black or even a lacy pastel, go for it! It's all about what makes you shine.
Honestly, it's as unique as your guy! Some men love the mystery of a babydoll, others might go crazy for a lacy bra and panty set. It might take some experimenting, but remember, it's about both of you enjoying the moment.
Surprises are the best! Maybe slip into something sultry when he least expects it. Or, plan a special night and let him know you've got a thrilling secret up your sleeve—well, not literally, since we're talking lingerie!
I totally get it! Start with something simple that feels comfy and graduate to more daring pieces as you gain confidence. Remember, your man is thrilled to see you in anything that makes you feel like the amazing goddess you are.
2. Play Prints down
Along with avoiding super bright colours, you might also want to avoid picking lingerie with super colourful patterns or prints on it as well. Instead, opt for black lingerie as this is not only super classy and sophisticated but also flattering on many women. If you want a more playful colour, however, red is the right choice!
Oh, it's so much fun to pick something that makes you feel confident and fabulous! Go for something you love and feel comfortable in. Men love confidence, so whatever you choose, wear it with pride!
You know, they say classic red is always a hit, but it really depends on what you feel amazing in. If you love black or even a lacy pastel, go for it! It's all about what makes you shine.
Honestly, it's as unique as your guy! Some men love the mystery of a babydoll, others might go crazy for a lacy bra and panty set. It might take some experimenting, but remember, it's about both of you enjoying the moment.
Surprises are the best! Maybe slip into something sultry when he least expects it. Or, plan a special night and let him know you've got a thrilling secret up your sleeve—well, not literally, since we're talking lingerie!
I totally get it! Start with something simple that feels comfy and graduate to more daring pieces as you gain confidence. Remember, your man is thrilled to see you in anything that makes you feel like the amazing goddess you are.
3. Make Sure It Fits
It's hard to wear lingerie that you're constantly having to pull up or re-adjust, right? That's why the fit is super important when picking the right lingerie to drive him crazy! Choose lingerie that fits you so well it looks like it was made for you!
Oh, it's so much fun to pick something that makes you feel confident and fabulous! Go for something you love and feel comfortable in. Men love confidence, so whatever you choose, wear it with pride!
You know, they say classic red is always a hit, but it really depends on what you feel amazing in. If you love black or even a lacy pastel, go for it! It's all about what makes you shine.
Honestly, it's as unique as your guy! Some men love the mystery of a babydoll, others might go crazy for a lacy bra and panty set. It might take some experimenting, but remember, it's about both of you enjoying the moment.
Surprises are the best! Maybe slip into something sultry when he least expects it. Or, plan a special night and let him know you've got a thrilling secret up your sleeve—well, not literally, since we're talking lingerie!
I totally get it! Start with something simple that feels comfy and graduate to more daring pieces as you gain confidence. Remember, your man is thrilled to see you in anything that makes you feel like the amazing goddess you are.
Even if you feel insecure about certain parts of your body you can still wear lingerie and not only feel sexy but look it too! The trick here is to emphasize places you want to be especially noticed by choosing lingerie that focuses here, and draw attention away from places you don't want noticed as much!
How do I choose lingerie that will make my man go wild?
Oh, it's so much fun to pick something that makes you feel confident and fabulous! Go for something you love and feel comfortable in. Men love confidence, so whatever you choose, wear it with pride!
Is there a particular color that drives men crazy?
You know, they say classic red is always a hit, but it really depends on what you feel amazing in. If you love black or even a lacy pastel, go for it! It's all about what makes you shine.
What style of lingerie do men find irresistible?
Honestly, it's as unique as your guy! Some men love the mystery of a babydoll, others might go crazy for a lacy bra and panty set. It might take some experimenting, but remember, it's about both of you enjoying the moment.
How can I surprise my man with lingerie?
Surprises are the best! Maybe slip into something sultry when he least expects it. Or, plan a special night and let him know you've got a thrilling secret up your sleeve—well, not literally, since we're talking lingerie!
I’m nervous about wearing lingerie, any tips?
I totally get it! Start with something simple that feels comfy and graduate to more daring pieces as you gain confidence. Remember, your man is thrilled to see you in anything that makes you feel like the amazing goddess you are.
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5. Make It Easy
By this I mean make your choice of lingerie something that can be taken on and off easily! You catch my drift, right? The last thing you want is for your man (or you, for that matter) to be so caught up with undoing lots of fiddley buttons and what not that the moment is quickly lost!
How do I choose lingerie that will make my man go wild?
Oh, it's so much fun to pick something that makes you feel confident and fabulous! Go for something you love and feel comfortable in. Men love confidence, so whatever you choose, wear it with pride!
Is there a particular color that drives men crazy?
You know, they say classic red is always a hit, but it really depends on what you feel amazing in. If you love black or even a lacy pastel, go for it! It's all about what makes you shine.
What style of lingerie do men find irresistible?
Honestly, it's as unique as your guy! Some men love the mystery of a babydoll, others might go crazy for a lacy bra and panty set. It might take some experimenting, but remember, it's about both of you enjoying the moment.
How can I surprise my man with lingerie?
Surprises are the best! Maybe slip into something sultry when he least expects it. Or, plan a special night and let him know you've got a thrilling secret up your sleeve—well, not literally, since we're talking lingerie!
I’m nervous about wearing lingerie, any tips?
I totally get it! Start with something simple that feels comfy and graduate to more daring pieces as you gain confidence. Remember, your man is thrilled to see you in anything that makes you feel like the amazing goddess you are.
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6. Flaunt Bare Skin
If you really want to turn him on and drive him crazy make sure your choice of lingerie shows plenty of bare skin! Try to avoid anything that covers up too much of your body to the point where there's not much skin visible. Don't underestimate the power of bare skin when it comes to driving him crazy!
How do I choose lingerie that will make my man go wild?
Oh, it's so much fun to pick something that makes you feel confident and fabulous! Go for something you love and feel comfortable in. Men love confidence, so whatever you choose, wear it with pride!
Is there a particular color that drives men crazy?
You know, they say classic red is always a hit, but it really depends on what you feel amazing in. If you love black or even a lacy pastel, go for it! It's all about what makes you shine.
What style of lingerie do men find irresistible?
Honestly, it's as unique as your guy! Some men love the mystery of a babydoll, others might go crazy for a lacy bra and panty set. It might take some experimenting, but remember, it's about both of you enjoying the moment.
How can I surprise my man with lingerie?
Surprises are the best! Maybe slip into something sultry when he least expects it. Or, plan a special night and let him know you've got a thrilling secret up your sleeve—well, not literally, since we're talking lingerie!
I’m nervous about wearing lingerie, any tips?
I totally get it! Start with something simple that feels comfy and graduate to more daring pieces as you gain confidence. Remember, your man is thrilled to see you in anything that makes you feel like the amazing goddess you are.
Ask
7. Add Accessories
No one said it had to all be about the lingerie, did they?! Take the opportunity to get creative and add accessories like shoes and/or jewellery to make more of an impact! The best part is that you don't have to buy anything for this - you can use anything you already own and just show it off in a new and exciting way!
Do you have any more tips on how to drive your man crazy with lingerie? Share them below! ❤️ 😍 😘
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I'm not totally sure if I agree with the no bright colors part. Personally I like to wear fluorescent and neon colors that glow under my black light, things have a gunner more adventurous feel. I like to do my toes and fingernails in glowing colors also.
What to believe anymore.
I think it has desensitized him to getting excited by a real woman because he programmed his brain to connect an image with his sexuality. I hear it programs the brain to only produce bonding chemicals to an image and then can't get excited by real contact
Tried many styles colors, doing my hair and makeup nice and even bringing toys, swings, lubes, colored lights and everything I can come up with and none of it ever really excites him. In 4 yrs he has never suggested anything new, kinky or exciting at all.
I've tried to discuss this with him with no luck getting any input from him. He had an extreme porn addiction/ obsession that he hid from me for the first three yrs of our relationship and literally watched it and masturbated every chance he had. Even befo
Before work, at all three breaks after work, when he got home, while I made dinner and after I fell asleep every night. It has adversely affected my self esteem and put me in a horrible backslide for past 6 mo. He swears he's stopped now but I'm not sure w
I don't understand why my partner does not get exited when I wear sexy lingerie for him? Im an attractive woman with small breasts but a decent body. Usually he just continues with whatever he's doing and shows no sign of interest at all usually. I've
@Twirpytwila nice! You do you girl 😊
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Twirpytwila:I'm not totally sure if I agree with the no bright colors part. Personally I like to wear fluorescent and neon colors that glow under my black light, things have a gunner more adventurous feel. I like to do my toes and fingernails in glowing colors also.
Twirpytwila:What to believe anymore.
Twirpytwila:I think it has desensitized him to getting excited by a real woman because he programmed his brain to connect an image with his sexuality. I hear it programs the brain to only produce bonding chemicals to an image and then can't get excited by real contact
Twirpytwila:Tried many styles colors, doing my hair and makeup nice and even bringing toys, swings, lubes, colored lights and everything I can come up with and none of it ever really excites him. In 4 yrs he has never suggested anything new, kinky or exciting at all.
Twirpytwila:I've tried to discuss this with him with no luck getting any input from him. He had an extreme porn addiction/ obsession that he hid from me for the first three yrs of our relationship and literally watched it and masturbated every chance he had. Even befo
Twirpytwila:Before work, at all three breaks after work, when he got home, while I made dinner and after I fell asleep every night. It has adversely affected my self esteem and put me in a horrible backslide for past 6 mo. He swears he's stopped now but I'm not sure w
Twirpytwila:I don't understand why my partner does not get exited when I wear sexy lingerie for him? Im an attractive woman with small breasts but a decent body. Usually he just continues with whatever he's doing and shows no sign of interest at all usually. I've
Lucy:@Twirpytwila nice! You do you girl 😊
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