--- title: "17 Games You Shouldnt Let Men Play with You ..." description: "He Uses You for Sex; He Plays Hard to Get; He Flirts around; He Ghosts on You; He Lies to You; More ..." url: "https://love.allwomenstalk.com/games-you-shouldnt-let-men-play-with-you/" category: "love" last_updated: "2026-06-02" --- # 17 Games You Shouldnt Let Men Play with You ... Men accuse us of sending mixed signals and playing games with their hearts all the time. However, they're guilty of it, too. Of course, you shouldn't let men play any games with you. If your boyfriend or crush does any of these things to you, don't waste your time with him: ## 1. He Uses You for Sex ![He Uses You for Sex](https://img.allw.mn/content/p7/j4/gvw42k4v565f132ee5bc1382665875_500x200.gif) You're not a sex object. Don't let a man sleep with you if he has no intention of becoming your boyfriend. ## 2. He Plays Hard to Get ![He Plays Hard to Get](https://img.allw.mn/content/v7/ya/lnyb3f46565f13342146d506747736_500x200.gif) We aren't the only ones who play hard to get. Sometimes, men will pretend they don't have time for us, or that they aren't interested in us, just to keep us interested. ## 3. He Flirts around ![He Flirts around](https://img.allw.mn/content/gn/po/uk9fa9p3565f132fe46dd359376946_500x229.gif) Don't date a player. If he claims he cares about you, then he shouldn't be flirting with every other girl he sees. ## 4. He Ghosts on You ![He Ghosts on You](https://img.allw.mn/content/p8/u7/h76l8jmv565f13301294d694359422_320x240.gif) Some men will treat you like a princess for a while, and then drop out of your life. They'll go MIA and you'll never find out why. ## 5. He Lies to You ![He Lies to You](https://img.allw.mn/content/h2/x1/s3022yb3565f133099462676722537_500x288.gif) Some men will flat-out lie to you about everything. They'll fib about where they're going, what they're doing, and how much they love you. ## 6. He Gives You Backhanded Compliments ![He Gives You Backhanded Compliments](https://img.allw.mn/content/g4/iw/r8k86z0w565f1331294f3607954926_500x266.gif) Compliments are supposed to be flattering. If he ends up insulting you, then call him out on it. Don't let him be rude. ## 7. He Breaks up with You All the Time ![black and white, image, monochrome photography, darkness, monochrome,](https://img.allw.mn/content/e0/o2/dkz7xmcd58886b8ab04a8446630172_500x281.gif) Your relationship is unhealthy if you break up and get back together again twice a year. You're either together or you're not. Don't keep going back and fourth. ## 8. He Refuses to Show Interest ![wait,, just, realized,, don't, care.,](https://img.allw.mn/content/ws/l9/ejulxvxs58886b8a988b6141787643_500x198.gif) Some men will refuse to admit that they have feelings for you. They think that showing interest shows weakness. ## 9. He Tries to Make You Jealous ![facial expression, hair, face, person, red,](https://img.allw.mn/content/hr/bk/cvy4htx858886b8b05bdf802743439_500x265.gif) Some men will purposely try to make you jealous by talking to other women. If your man does that to you, tell him off. He shouldn't be trying to make you angry. ## 10. He Gives You Ultimatums ![phenomenon, screenshot, don't, too, well,](https://img.allw.mn/content/ao/lg/kznn6br658886b8b20bc1386928116_400x224.gif) If he tells you that you need to ignore all of your male friends or he'll leave you, then you should be the one leaving him. He should be compromising with you, not giving you ultimatums. ## 11. He Catcalls Women ![He Catcalls Women](https://img.allw.mn/content/vn/py/db5wn34u565f1333edadc898663994_480x270.gif) If he catcalls other women, why would you date him? It's a form of sexual harassment. ## 12. He Ignores You ![He Ignores You](https://img.allw.mn/content/w6/mz/al138fi2565f133172175590433895_500x281.gif) If he won't respond to your text messages, then stop texting him. There's no reason to try to keep in contact with someone who clearly doesn't care about you. ## 13. He Asks You to Change Your Appearance ![He Asks You to Change Your Appearance](https://img.allw.mn/content/x0/nv/utbrpip1565f133211adb604796720_500x238.gif) He shouldn't ask you to lose weight or wear different types of clothes. He should like you just the way you are. ## 14. He Booty Calls You ![He Booty Calls You](https://img.allw.mn/content/ct/rh/hr0i0qc6565f13322c84a456871277_500x280.gif) Don't let him call you for random hookups. If he wants to kiss you, he should date you. ## 15. He Asks to Be Friends with Benefits ![He Asks to Be Friends with Benefits](https://img.allw.mn/content/o0/bq/ef7hr096565f1333c724e740899913_480x232.gif) Don't be "friends with benefits" if you really want to be "boyfriend and girlfriend." It's not fair to you. ## 16. He Abuses You ![image, screenshot, emotion, film, interaction,](https://img.allw.mn/content/bj/xq/z3ih4hua58886b8c57d27367013262_500x280.gif) Don't let a man abuse you physically or emotionally. It's not acceptable. ## 17. He Blackmails You ![He Blackmails You](https://img.allw.mn/content/sq/re/aoigkw2i565f13332d3eb348128388_500x247.gif) If he threatens to post your nude pictures online, leave him as soon as you can. He doesn't deserve to be with you. Don't let a guy play games with your heart. You deserve someone who loves you and won't mess around with your emotions. 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