3. It Paints Your Relationship in a Bad Light

I don’t know about you, but I want others to think of my husband and I as a happy and devoted couple, and we truly are.

But when you choose to tell others about problems you may be having, you are painting a very different picture for them. They see your relationship as struggling. They don’t have the advantage of seeing you make up and work through issues, so they hold that negative picture in mind. It may even come out in the way they treat one or the other of you.

Others Hold Grudges


yeap i agree with the things in this attricale because nobody elese should really be in your relastionship
Agree with everything you say
Pretend everything is ok, After that then you get to hear, after the divorce, I thought you all were so happy and in love. Yep pretend everything is great!
Shondi Wynter
So true
Lil Lou Lou
Amen sista gurl
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