You can say that falling in love feels like going to the gym for the first time: it can hurt a lot, but it can still feel amazing. Love can be a weird but intense feeling that can make you do things you never thought yourself to be capable of. Most people won’t understand why you smile like an idiot all day long or why you act crazy. You know what’s causing this change in your behavior and you couldn’t be happier that you have been given the chance to experience this wonderful feeling. Here are 7 things only girls in love will understand:
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1. They Know Love Songs Are True
A girl in love will know that every lyric in every love song is true. Even though you normally don’t really like sappy love songs, when the love bug bites you, you re-evaluate your priorities and your tastes in music and you find yourself putting songs like Aerosmith's "I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing" or Ellie Goulding's "Love Me Like You Do" on repeat.
2. Their Idea of Fun Changes
A girl’s idea of fun will change once she falls in love. If she used to love going from club to club every night, staying up late talking to her girlfriends or taking up new hobbies, now that she’s in love, she will prefer to just stay at home with her soul mate, watching a movie and enjoying their company.
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will shift towards more intimate and cozy activities. Instead of chasing nightlife thrills or seeking endless social interactions, she’ll find joy in simple, quieter moments. Being in love means that her happiness now intertwines with shared experiences, such as cuddling on the couch, cooking dinner together, or taking long walks hand-in-hand. There’s a new comfort in knowing that the mundane can become magical when shared with the right person. Her partner’s presence adds a whole new dimension to what once might have seemed like ordinary activities, making even the simplest moments special and cherished.
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3. They Can’t Stop Mentioning Their Lover’s Name
A girl who’s in love will talk non-stop about that special person who is always on her mind. No matter if the things you are talking about have nothing to do with them, she will find a way to get her lover’s name into the conversation and tell you how amazing and wonderful they are and how much she misses them, even though it’s been only two hours since she last saw them.
4. They Become Anxious when They Are Separated from Their Lover
Girls in love will become anxious quite quickly when they are separated from their lover. Even though they saw them a few hours ago, they really miss them and they feel incomplete without them. You can even say that it’s a form of dependency, that it’s not so healthy if it lasts too long because you are the one responsible for your own happiness, not the person you are in a relationship with.
5. They Don’t Understand Why You Are Not as Upbeat as Them
A girl who is in love will think that the entire world is an awesome place and she will enjoy the beautiful things in nature more. She will also not understand why the other people are not realizing how lucky they are just to be alive and why they are not as upbeat as she is.
6. They Can’t do Anything without Thinking of Their Love
A girl in love will think about her sweetheart non-stop, no matter what she's doing. Also, she will pretty much refuse to do anything that doesn’t involve her partner, like going out for a drink, going to a movie or even to a party. Girls in love want to be with their significant other every hour of every day and they are actually not having fun if they are going somewhere by themselves.
7. They Smile Strangely when They Talk about Their Love
People in love will always smile and even act strangely when they hear someone saying the name of their lover or even when they are talking about their significant other. Their face radiates with joy and happiness and a distracted look comes over their face every time they think about that wonderful person they adore.
Love can make you do strange things, but it’s also a wonderful experience that will make you feel more alive and more in touch with the beautiful things around you. How do you feel when you are in love? What are some other things that only girls in love understand? Please share your thoughts with us in the comments section!
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Comments
faeaki: Ameliax that's very true!
Confusedinlove: Girls falling in love do things like that. Girls in love don't do this.
Jennifer: Hello junior high
Gauri: Oh my god, I think this article has been written by someone deeply in love! Because that's EXACTLY how it feels ! Also, Ellie Goulding's Love Me Like You Do had me laughing in fits because that's what I have been doing ! Yea I am in love, fallen for the first time, but he doesn't know! Like truly, madly, deeply!
peony: Oh goodness
Sharon: This sounds more like puppy love than actually in a relationship.
iulia: lovely
ameliax: Worst thing that can happen is falling in love with someone who doesnt love you back
Lucy: If you're twelve and secretly idolise Bella Swann as an example of the perfect in love woman. Uggh, most of these are unsustainable, unhealthy and unrealistic. Bad job.
Reggie: I agree with all but two of them. I've been in love before and I never gave up hobbies to become a couch potato lol. I kept going out occasionally with friends, volunteering, visiting family, keeping active an working. Just because you're in love doesn't mean you need to give up your hobbies. Also just because someone is single it doesn't mean they are sad, angry and depressed. There are single people who are happy and love life as well. Yes love makes it even better, but it doesn't mean you aren't happy when you're single.
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