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How Can You Cure Your Dry Spell?

Heather Jensen

How Can You Cure Your Dry Spell?

Dry spells suck. Plain and simple, they suck. Have you ever been through one? If not, thank the lord! Not only do you not have any intimacy, but you feel the distance between your partner and you. So, how do you get out of the rut? How do you get out of that horrible dry spell phase of marriage or even relationships?

1 The Lines of Communication Need to Be Busted down

The Lines of Communication Need to Be Busted down Open up girl! Seriously, one reason for a dry spell is because you don't talk about it. At all.

2 Timing is off

Timing is off Do you make any time for each other? It's doubtful if you aren't having sex.

3 Spend Time Together

Spend Time Together Okay, so this goes with #2, but it's different, because you can make time for one another and it isn't quality. Make sure it is quality time when you're together. Seriously, it makes a difference.

4 Remove Any Conflicts

Remove Any Conflicts That means on time or even personally. Remove any and all conflicts.

5 You're Not Feeling Sexy Enough for Sex

You're Not Feeling Sexy Enough for Sex It happens sometimes right? Why not spice it up a little bit and get to the root of the problem of why you aren't feeling sexy.

6 Be Open Minded

Be Open Minded You've GOT to have an open mind when it comes to sex so you don't get bored. Seriously, it works.

7 Be Positive

Be Positive You can't be negative when you are going through a dry spell; it doesn't help anyone.

8 Be Completely Honest and up Front with Your Partner

Be Completely Honest and up Front with Your Partner If you aren't feeling it, you've got to tell them. Seriously.

9 Try Masturbating

Try Masturbating I know it might seem … weird to do that when you are going through a dry spell, but it can help you get inspired!

10 Share Your Feelings

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I'm being honest here, you've got to open up to feel more connected.

11 Don't Plan for Sex

Don't Plan for Sex You heard it! Don't plan it, just let it happen.

12 It Could Be about Your Health Too

It Could Be about Your Health Too Sometimes, the dry spell can be about your stress or your relationship but sometimes, it can be about your health too. Keep that in mind and make a doctor's appointment!

13 Make Sure You Are Well Rested

Make Sure You Are Well Rested Seriously, it is critical to your health, your mind and your sex drive!

14 Consider Other Means to Be Intimate

Consider Other Means to Be Intimate Cuddling, talking and just connecting on a deeper level.

15 Ease into Sex

Ease into Sex This is ESPECIALLY true if you haven't had it for a while. Don't just rush into it.

16 Toys?

Toys? They could really, really help both of you feel comfortable.

17 Don't Let It Get You down

Don't Let It Get You down Being depressed because you are in a dry spell isn't going to work, you need to take action to get over the dry spell. Trust me!