1 The Lines of Communication Need to Be Busted down
Open up girl! Seriously, one reason for a dry spell is because you don't talk about it. At all.
Dry spells suck. Plain and simple, they suck. Have you ever been through one? If not, thank the lord! Not only do you not have any intimacy, but you feel the distance between your partner and you. So, how do you get out of the rut? How do you get out of that horrible dry spell phase of marriage or even relationships?
Open up girl! Seriously, one reason for a dry spell is because you don't talk about it. At all.
Do you make any time for each other? It's doubtful if you aren't having sex.
Okay, so this goes with #2, but it's different, because you can make time for one another and it isn't quality. Make sure it is quality time when you're together. Seriously, it makes a difference.
That means on time or even personally. Remove any and all conflicts.
It happens sometimes right? Why not spice it up a little bit and get to the root of the problem of why you aren't feeling sexy.
You've GOT to have an open mind when it comes to sex so you don't get bored. Seriously, it works.
You can't be negative when you are going through a dry spell; it doesn't help anyone.
If you aren't feeling it, you've got to tell them. Seriously.
I know it might seem … weird to do that when you are going through a dry spell, but it can help you get inspired!
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I'm being honest here, you've got to open up to feel more connected.
You heard it! Don't plan it, just let it happen.
Sometimes, the dry spell can be about your stress or your relationship but sometimes, it can be about your health too. Keep that in mind and make a doctor's appointment!
Seriously, it is critical to your health, your mind and your sex drive!
Cuddling, talking and just connecting on a deeper level.
This is ESPECIALLY true if you haven't had it for a while. Don't just rush into it.
They could really, really help both of you feel comfortable.
Being depressed because you are in a dry spell isn't going to work, you need to take action to get over the dry spell. Trust me!
