When you’re in a relationship with someone, there of course will be ups and downs. But you shouldn’t have to deal with his crazy ex showing up in the picture all the time. It seems like this happens quite a bit. Some people just don’t know how to move on, and maybe your man is too nice to tell her bye for good👋 Whatever the details are, it can be frustrating. There are some ways to deal with it though if it’s happening to you.
It can be super tempting to want to think the worst if your boyfriends ex is still keeping contact, but step back for a minute and evaluate the situation as a whole. While you might want to yell at her or your man, it’s best to be calm and try to view things from all perspectives. Think about when you had a breakup? It can be normal to want to maintain a relationship with someone. It can be hard to see them with someone else. We’re not saying it’s right for her to be pushing herself in, but seeing things from this way can make you less upset when you decide how to handle it.