2. See His Side

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People, men in particular, are much more likely to open themselves up to another person if they feel like their perspective and point of view if being taken in to consideration. If he feels like he is only speaking to you to defend himself and try to justify himself, he is going to be much less forthcoming. Tell him that you sympathize with him and you want to be a part of his experience and he might be more willing to let you in.

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