Sex is super fun, has anybody ever told you that? I know, it’s hardly a huge secret, but you would be amazed at the amount of people who aren’t entirely sure of that fact because that still haven’t managed to get in to their sexual groove with a partner. We all have the potential to be great lovers and have great sex, it’s just a case of taking on the right advice and putting the right moves into practice! Here is how to give him the best ride ever!
1. Make Sure to Be Extra Careful when You Are You Sitting on Top of Him and Straddling Him, One Wrong Movement and You Could End up Hurting His Sensitive Area and Completely Killing the Mood!
2. Something That is Important is That You Should Be Looking to Please Yourself First, and Him Second. the Truth is That Most Women Take a Little Bit More Care and Attention to Climax than Men, so the Very Act of You Getting off Will Help Him to Get off at the Same Time
3. Be Creative during the Ride if You Can! Don’t Just Grind Away. Get Your Hands Involved and Give the Rest of His Body Some Attention at the Same Time, His Nipples in Particular
4. The Key Thing is Getting into a Smooth Motion That Has You and Him Connecting Together like a Sexy Jigsaw Puzzle. It’s All about Achieving That Motion of the Ocean That Will Send You Both over the Edge!
5. Don’t Just Wiggle Forwards and Backwards when You Are Having Sex. Make Sure to Lift Yourself Slightly to Achieve That in and out Motion at the Same Time. It’s All about Getting the Perfect Friction
6. Make Sure to Relax! Guys Can Tell when You Are Not Fully Comfortable or Engaged with a Situation, and Nothing Kills a Boner Quicker than the Thought That You Aren’t Actually Enjoying Yourself!
7. Turn around and Face the opposite Direction to Give Him a Change of Scenery. Give Him the Chance to Be as Much of a Bum Guy as He is a Boob Guy by Presenting a Full 360 Degree Viewing Angle!
8. Confidence is Key to Having Great Sex. You Really Can Fake It until You Make It, and It Will Rarely Ever Culminate in the Fake Kinds of Orgasms!
9. You Need to Be Able to Control His Penis! Take into Account the Size You Are Dealing with, and Try Not to over Commit with Your Movements so That He Keeps Slipping out of You
10. Don’t Feel Embarrassed or Ashamed about Getting the Lube out. the More Slippery and Smooth Proceedings Are, the Better the Outcome is Going to Be!
11. Don’t Rely Just on Penetration to Get the Job Done. Make Sure That You Put in All of the Requisite Foreplay Action Both before and after if Needed
12. Practise Makes Perfect! Don’t Be Put off of the Riding in Positions Just Because You Tried It Once and It Didn’t Work Great. Keep on Going until You Both Find a Rhythm That Works for You
13. Put Some Music on That You Can Kind of Work Your Thrusts and Movements to the Beat. It’s an Easy Way to Get into a Rhythm!
14. Teamwork Makes the Dream Work, so Make Sure That You Communicate with Your Partner to Achieve the Best Outcome and Work Together to Make Each Other Feel as Good as Possible
15. Don’t Forget about the Power of Hairography! Whip It Back and Forth as Much as You Can to Create a Really Sexy and Frenetic Effect
Frequently Asked Questions
- What are some tips for feeling more confident when riding my man?
- Oh girl, confidence is key! Remember that your partner loves and desires you, so owning your body and movements is everything. Dress in something that makes you feel sexy, set the mood with lighting or music, and get into a rhythm that feels good for you. Don't hesitate to practice on your own with exercises like hip rolls or pelvic tilts to boost your riding confidence.
- Is there a best position to start with when riding on top?
- Definitely! Start with the classic cowgirl. It's simple: You're on top, facing him, with your knees on the bed. This position gives you the control to find a pace and depth that's pleasure-packed for both of you. Once you're comfy with this, you can switch things up!
- How can I figure out the best rhythm when I'm on top?
- It's all about feeling the groove and the connection between you and your man. Start slow to tease and build anticipation, then follow your body’s natural movement. Pay attention to his reactions to see what he enjoys. And hey, don't be afraid to ask him! Communicating can really rev things up.
- What should I do with my hands while I’m riding?
- Your hands can take the experience from hot to sizzling. Run them through his hair, hold onto his hands, or caress your own body. If you're looking for extra support or want to take control, place your hands on his chest or the bed. Remember, what you do with your hands can turn up the heat for both of you.
- Any advice for avoiding getting tired too quickly when riding on top?
- Oh, for sure! It's like a steamy workout, so take your time and pace yourself. Switching positions can give you a little break. Let him take the lead for a bit or shift to a side-by-side position. And girl, don't forget those thigh-burning exercises like squats and lunges, they can help build stamina for those longer rides!