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Making Love Last when Youre Miles Apart Part 2 ...

By Kemberly

We already tackled the first three steps on how to have a successful long distance relationship. This time, we’ll continue with the another three steps on how to have a successful long distance relationship. Get ready to be in love for a long time, even if you're not close together.

Table of contents:

  1. You need to be able to trust him
  2. You have to make sure you do things together
  3. You have to set boundaries and have good expectations

1 You Need to Be Able to Trust Him

One of the most important answer for how to have a successful long distance relationship is to trust each other. Long distance relationships require TRUST. Your man needs to be able to trust you, just as you need to be able to trust him. It is better not to let yourself fall into something that you shouldn’t do, but if you mess up, tell him right away.

Say for example, if you went out with your friends at a bar but you’re afraid to let your partner know about it, then you are undermining your relationship. Nevertheless, if you are honest with him and just tell him where you were, then you are strengthening your relationship and your trust.

2 You Have to Make Sure You do Things Together

Doing an activity together while you are apart is one the best ways to stay close in a relationship. You could make a blog with him and write something to each other. You could also watch a TV series together and talk about them during your phone calls.

You could also try to create a ritual around cooking dinner at the same time. In that way, you will feel a lot more connected to each other than if you just call every day. If you want a more active approach, try to pick up a new hobby and learn how to do it together. You could learn how to play board games and play against each other via Skype or FaceTime.

Whatever it is, remember that the most important thing here is that you are doing it together and doing it consistently. You will have a lot to talk about when you meet up in person.

3 You Have to Set Boundaries and Have Good Expectations

Before your long distance relationship even starts, both of you have to make sure you are on the same page. What do you want in a relationship? Do you expect each other to be faithful? As important as the other, you both should have an idea when the long distance aspect of the relationship is going to be over. You have to be clear on whether either of you would be willing to move to be with each other. Those are difficult questions, but they will certainly save you pain in the long run.

Allow this to be a way to make your relationship stronger. You both have to talk through your uncertainties together, and just be honest with yourself and him. Long distance relationships are hard enough, but you have to stay positive and keep your expectations reasonable. If someone makes a mistake, be open-minded - it is not the end of the world.

In the end, keeping your relationship strong and healthy is up to BOTH of you. Put in the effort to make it work. If you both can do that, then you will be fine!

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