4. Talk to Your Partner

I can’t stress this enough. How can your partner satisfy you if they don’t know what you want or like? They can’t give you what you don’t ask for.

You will probably find your partner is just as embarrassed about it as you and you may find out some interesting things about them if you just can’t seem to get past the crippling embarrassment instilled on us since birth. Try writing little “Do to Me” Notes. Put in lunch boxes, on their pillow with a chocolate. Use your imagination. It can help if you just can’t seem to say the words out loud.

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