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If These Things Come Naturally You've Found the Right Guy ...

By Holly

You're bound to date quite a few losers before you end up with the love of your life. It's rare to Mr. Right right away, so don't give up hope if you're still looking for the one for you. Once you meet him, you'll know it. How? Well, if the following things come naturally, it's guaranteed that you've found the right guy:

1 Being Yourself

When you meet an attractive guy, it's easy to pretend to be what you think he wants instead of actually being yourself. However, when you find the right man, you'll feel so comfortable talking to him that you won't even think about acting any differently than you usually do. You'll be yourself from the get go. That means that your entire friendship and relationship with him will be completely genuine. No lies required.

2 Kissing

Okay, you can't always judge your chemistry on the very first kiss, because it's often awkward. However, if every subsequent kiss just feels right, you've found the right guy. On the other hand, if things never stop being awkward, you should move on. You can't have a healthy relationship with a man if every kiss and act of intimacy feels staged.

3 Flirting

You might consider yourself a horrible flirt, but flirting is essentially just joking around with someone you find attractive. When you find the right guy, it'll be easy to be playful with him. It'll feel like you've been friends for years, even when you've just met hours earlier.

4 Holding Eye Contact

Eye contact can be a scary thing. It's difficult to look directly into someone's eyes when they're talking to you, even though you know it's the polite thing to do. If you meet a man, and have no problem looking straight into his beautiful eyes, he could be the one for you. It means that he makes you feel comfortable and safe.

5 Opening up

If you're a closed book, it's probably hard for you to open up about your painful memories. However, when you find the right guy, you'll find yourself uttering secrets that you never thought you'd tell anyone. You won't even second guess whether or not you should tell him, because you'll know that you need to be honest with him. The best part? He won't judge you at all, because he loves you just as much as you love him.

6 Sitting in Silence

Some people are absolutely terrified of silence. As soon as a room goes quiet, they'll think of something to say so that they're not stuck feeling awkward. However, when you find the right guy, silence won't feel strange to you. It'll actually feel comfortable, because the person you love most in the world is right next to you, making you feel at peace.

7 Touching

Kissing isn't the only form of physical contact that you should be comfortable with. When he holds your hand or places a hand on your thigh, do you feel comfortable or do you freak out? If he's right for you, then the touching will relax you. The closer you are to him, the better.

Once you meet the one for you, you'll know it in your heart. It'll be as clear as day. Did these things come naturally to you when you started dating your partner?

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