--- title: "7 Little Things to Try for a Steamier Sex Life ..." description: "Have Sex in Pitch-black Darkness; Keep Your Clothes on; Leave the Door (or Windows) Open; Have Sex before You Go out; Take Turns Narrating the Action; More ..." url: "https://love.allwomenstalk.com/little-things-to-try-for-a-steamier-sex-life/" category: "love" last_updated: "2026-06-02" --- # 7 Little Things to Try for a Steamier Sex Life ... If you want a sex life to brag about, listen to what [Thought Catalogue](https://thoughtcatalog.com/melanie-berliet/2015/10/10-simple-ways-healthy-couples-can-make-their-sex-lives-even-better/) has to say. They've come up with a few little tricks you can use in the bedroom to really make your time worthwhile. Here they are: ## 1. Have Sex in Pitch-black Darkness ![Have Sex in Pitch-black Darkness](https://img.allw.mn/content/tz/jo/xhx14if65628f47778ffe977353562_500x321.gif) This way, you'll have to rely on your other senses to guide you. Instead of seeing your partner's lips, you'll have to feel around for them. The mystery of it all can be incredibly satisfying. ## 2. Keep Your Clothes on ![Keep Your Clothes on](https://img.allw.mn/content/sz/bp/xp1exto95628f466278c8069173483_500x244.gif) You don't always have to rip off all of your clothes before having sex. If you keep some items on, you'll feel naughtier. Besides, you know what they look like naked, so you can still fantasize about it. ## 3. Leave the Door (or Windows) Open ![Leave the Door (or Windows) Open](https://img.allw.mn/content/it/af/y5vm4k2s5628f467dd4f1886226417_500x210.gif) Your neighbors aren't going to peek through your windows, but the possibility of it happening can be a major turn on. It'll give you a rush of adrenaline that you don't normally feel. ## 4. Have Sex before You Go out ![Have Sex before You Go out](https://img.allw.mn/content/zs/g3/tsfvzec25628f46611b1c175892999_400x251.gif) At the end of the night, you two might be too exhausted to get it on. That's why you should do it before you go out with your friends. Then you have a nice memory to think about while you're out. ## 5. Take Turns Narrating the Action ![Take Turns Narrating the Action](https://img.allw.mn/content/uf/x7/q411fr9r5628f466bd15c584171607_245x160.gif) Voices can be a major turn on. That's why you should tell your partner exactly what you're going to do to him before you do it. You can even tell him what you want him to do to you. ## 6. Kiss Each Other Everywhere but the Lips ![Kiss Each Other Everywhere but the Lips](https://img.allw.mn/content/au/ym/q77h0gxg5628f46688c2b187710139_499x291.gif) You shouldn't do this every night, but try it once in a while. If you're not "allowed" to kiss on the lips, your mouth will have to travel to other places. Then you'll touch parts of his body you never bothered with before. ## 7. Commit to Post Sex Debriefing ![Commit to Post Sex Debriefing](https://img.allw.mn/content/oz/z5/hrojqnvh5628f46816fa3591487312_245x166.gif) After you have sex, question your partner. Ask him what his favorite and least favorite parts were. That way, you'll learn what he likes and can enhance your performance. What other sex tips do you have? ## Related Posts - [questions to ask before hooking up](https://love.allwomenstalk.com/questions-to-ask-before-having-sex-with-him/) - [sexy bedroom clothing](https://love.allwomenstalk.com/be-confident-and-sexy-in-the-bedroom/) - [funny ways to decline an invitation](https://funny.allwomenstalk.com/funny-ways-to-turn-down-sex-when-youre-not-in-the-mood/) - [youre in my inappropriate thoughts](https://funny.allwomenstalk.com/inappropriate-sexual-thoughts-every-woman-has/) - [virgin girl story](https://love.allwomenstalk.com/short-story-no-longer-a-virgin/) - [Masturbation is Good for You ...](https://health.allwomenstalk.com/masturbation-is-good-for-you/) - [bondage tips](https://love.allwomenstalk.com/bondage-tips-to-get-your-50-shades-on/) - [sexy questions and answers](https://love.allwomenstalk.com/sexy-questions-to-ask-your-man/) - [7 Pieces of Love Advice from Sex in the City ...](https://love.allwomenstalk.com/pieces-of-love-advice-from-sex-in-the-city/) - [k1 yoga pose](https://fitness.allwomenstalk.com/yoga-poses-for-a-better-sex-life/) - [7 Unusual Ways to Spice Things up in Bed ...](https://allwomenstalk.com/7-unusual-ways-to-spice-things-up-in-bed/) - [7 Ways to Subtly Improve Your Sex Life ...](https://allwomenstalk.com/7-ways-to-subtly-improve-your-sex-life/) ## Site Information - [Main page](https://allwomenstalk.com) - [Contact us](https://allwomenstalk.com/contact.html) - [HTML article](https://love.allwomenstalk.com/little-things-to-try-for-a-steamier-sex-life/)