--- title: "Never Ask a Same-Sex Couple These Ridiculous Questions ..." description: "To a Lesbian Couple: Are You Two Going to Adopt?; Who is Going to Propose?; Do You Have Real Sex?; To a Lesbian Couple: Can We Have a Threesome?; So Which One of You is Butch?; More ..." url: "https://love.allwomenstalk.com/never-ask-a-same-sex-couple-these-ridiculous-questions/" category: "love" last_updated: "2026-06-02" --- # Never Ask a Same\-Sex Couple These Ridiculous Questions ... When I came out as gay and I revealed that I had a girlfriend (now my wife!), I got asked ALL sorts of questions, from who is more butch all the way to why do I want the right to get married. If you aren't gay, you might not realize that these questions are offensive … but they are. Pay attention and be more aware! ## 1. To a Lesbian Couple: Are You Two Going to Adopt? ![To a Lesbian Couple: Are You Two Going to Adopt?](https://img.allw.mn/content/wt/zu/fr37m7ew566cb6493b195235863378_500x284.gif) No. We both have the parts to have a baby. We might just need a 'friend' to provide the sperm. ## 2. Who is Going to Propose? ![Who is Going to Propose?](https://img.allw.mn/content/h8/qf/knaz62sz566cb649c81b5198364137_500x294.gif) Best part about a same-sex couple? Either person can propose! ## 3. Do You Have Real Sex? ![Do You Have Real Sex?](https://img.allw.mn/content/sj/tx/nfbjys77566cb64a7e06b489213044_485x248.gif) As … opposed to fantasy? ## 4. To a Lesbian Couple: Can We Have a Threesome? ![To a Lesbian Couple: Can We Have a Threesome?](https://img.allw.mn/content/or/zh/n5o26rqr566cb64ba2c58762294983_500x333.gif) How about no. ## 5. So Which One of You is Butch? ![So Which One of You is Butch?](https://img.allw.mn/content/cq/h3/x7c6uelb566cb64c96fc4559515851_400x225.gif) How about, both of us are equally butch. And manly. And we don't fight over who is taking out the trash. ## 6. Who's in Charge, the Top or the Bottom? ![Who's in Charge, the Top or the Bottom?](https://img.allw.mn/content/m8/w5/ahjg6u2y566cb64d85bd4142529857_489x251.gif) It's your business … how? ## 7. Do You Really Have … Butt Sex? ![Do You Really Have … Butt Sex?](https://img.allw.mn/content/cl/ly/hrpcadcx566cb64e7d854880335651_500x275.gif) Yes. We do. ## 8. Why do You Need to Get Married? ![Why do You Need to Get Married?](https://img.allw.mn/content/gd/ff/iskcb8hb566cb64fbde7e905514256_489x251.gif) How about because it's our right? ## 9. To a Gay Couple: do You Plan to Have Kids? ![To a Gay Couple: do You Plan to Have Kids?](https://img.allw.mn/content/k5/vn/w4dc4et1566cb6507ddc9137626235_500x250.gif) Yes. Why wouldn't we? ## 10. Aren't You Scared of Your Kids Being Made Fun of Being Raised by a Same-sex Couple? ![Aren't You Scared of Your Kids Being Made Fun of Being Raised by a Same-sex Couple?](https://img.allw.mn/content/ge/jo/qfva59ro566cb65c0738a194921505_500x254.gif) Nope. The world is changing. ## 11. To a Lesbian Couple: What about Male Influence for Your Kids? ![To a Lesbian Couple: What about Male Influence for Your Kids?](https://img.allw.mn/content/em/p7/gtp37ora566cb652bb0ae046913029_500x262.gif) Our kids will be well-rounded and well-adjusted, just like yours. ## 12. To a Lesbian Couple: Have You Ever Had Sex with a Man? ![To a Lesbian Couple: Have You Ever Had Sex with a Man?](https://img.allw.mn/content/jp/s1/qt9c8vjc566cb653f3038357977542_500x250.gif) So, so offensive. ## 13. Are You Scared of Turning Your Kids Gay? ![Are You Scared of Turning Your Kids Gay?](https://img.allw.mn/content/ns/lm/s0y1kqmb566cb6553ba02640733370_500x297.gif) This. I want this. ## 14. Do Your Parents Approve of Your Relationship? ![Do Your Parents Approve of Your Relationship?](https://img.allw.mn/content/s8/py/o58ogt0y566cb65fd7f7d811787317_500x284.gif) Because that's your business too. ## 15. Is It True That You Cheat on Each Other All the Time? ![Is It True That You Cheat on Each Other All the Time?](https://img.allw.mn/content/tt/ac/jbnlfzlm566cb65703c3c340519082_500x300.gif) Because that's a stereotype right? ## 16. For Bi-sexual Couples: if You Break up, Are You Going to Switch Sexes? ![For Bi-sexual Couples: if You Break up, Are You Going to Switch Sexes?](https://img.allw.mn/content/lk/f2/jq8b013d566cb65772698946163133_500x263.gif) Maybe, maybe not. ## 17. 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