There are some reasons he only wants sex from you and figuring that out now can save you a lot of heartache down the road.
The early days of a new romantic connection can be exciting and fast, and it’s great when you find someone who you have an immediate chemistry with. However, sex is one of the biggest elements of starting up a new relationship, and if it starts to become clear that is all he wants from you, then you could end up hurt. The thing that many women don’t realise is that, sometimes, is it actually their own actions that could make things take this particular direction. These are some of the reasons he only wants sex from you.
It might not be the case with everyone, but if you start sleeping together before you have gone through many of the basic ‘getting to know each other’ type exercises, then it could be an indicator that he doesn’t really care about you as a person. If you go for it too soon, you might find yourself smack in the middle of one of the most common reasons he only wants sex from you.
Does he always turn any conversation into something sexy or flirty, even when you were asking him about something completely innocent and different? That just shows you that he has sex on the brain and you aren’t doing a great job at directing his attention elsewhere.
If you don’t set your standards out early on the in the relationship, then he may well get stuck in a loop of not knowing what you want or how to take things further. Sex is something you enjoy together so it’s safe ground for him in the absence of anything else.
Every guy tries it at some point or another - that cheeky 2AM text to see if he can come over. Even if you wouldn’t mind it, don’t give in to the request because it teaches him that you aren’t just something to be picked up when he feels like it.
It’s sometimes a vicious cycle that girls find themselves getting into. We have a favoured type, but a trait of that type is that they like to play games and hook up before getting serious. Perhaps expand your horizons?
Is there anything you are doing or a personality trait that sends the message that you don’t want to commit? Maybe he thinks you’re both on the same page in just wanting to have fun. If so, set him straight or move on.
If you are the kind of girl who can’t help but insult and complain about your past relationship(s) every chance you get, then he might see it as a warning sign for getting more serious, and decide to keep things on the hook up side.
A clear sign of him just wanting you for the physical side of a relationship is if you end up spending most of your time in the bedroom rather than going out on proper dates.
If the only idea that ever comes out of his mouth is that you take things to the bedroom, then you can be sure that he isn’t interested in doing any other type of couple's activities with you.
You could be prolonging the issue by not telling him that you want the relationship to get more serious. As far as he is aware, this could be exactly what you want. Share your feelings and see where it leads.