It's natural to want to fix all your partners problems. I gotta confess, I do it all the time. Some of us are just fixers, you know? We see a problem and we want to fix it. Unfortunately, sometimes our partners don't want us to. They don't need us to fix things for them, they just want us to be there. Acknowledging that and actually putting it into practice are two different things, but understanding that you just can't solve all of your partner's problems is the first step to, you know, stopping.