2. He Reminisces on Moments with Her

One of the most disturbing signs is hearing your boyfriend reminisce on endearing moments or events he had with his past lover. If he ever runs into an "I remember moment," then that should definitely make you feel uncomfortable.

Additionally, any other conversations of him slightly recalling little things about her are unacceptable. There is no excuse why flashbacks of his ex should be racing through his mind. That period in his life has come and gone and should be replaced with building new memorable moments with you. Maybe he just wants that old thing back (shrug shoulders).

He Holds on to Sentimental Gifts from Her


He avoids talking about her! Even when you directly ask him questions, and he changes the subject or is extremely vague. I'm going through this right now. I hate when a guy can't get over a pretty girl even when she was horrible to him. Ugh.
If he does number 7 it's purely disgusting and the guy is either stupid or an a**hole.
When he still have pictures of the two of them at fb or any other
I cant freaking béliève i was just a rebound. I m not even able to let it go. He s jus too glad wth d world.. Wow. I shud have know this or read this 3 months ago
Yana M
My ex is my best friend.. Most of the list are his wife issues...
i agree with you Lindsay, because my husband have a daughter and her mother want let her come to see her little baby brother.
This is a great article and so timely. I just broke up with a guy for all those reasons. Bullet dodged!!! Thanks for putting it so succinctly into words what I was feeling about this guy :)
Usually a fan of the things I click on from this site. This just causes insecurity. Add, "He ignores the mention of her" because that might mean he is thinking about her, and you have everything you n...
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