--- title: "17 Relationship Goals Inspired by Gomez and Morticia Addams ..." description: "Always Know when Your Lover is Unhappy … or, Er, Happy; The Couple Who Judges Together Stays Together; Dance like No One's Looking; No, Seriously, Forget the World and do Your Thing; Never Let Your Lover Get Bored; More ..." url: "https://love.allwomenstalk.com/relationship-goals-inspired-by-gomez-and-morticia-addams/" category: "love" last_updated: "2026-06-02" --- # 17 Relationship Goals Inspired by Gomez and Morticia Addams ... For my money, Gomez and Morticia Addams are the height of #relationshipgoals. There is not a couple anywhere in the world as passionate, in tune, and enamored as these two. They're creepy, kooky, mysterious, and spooky, yes, but they're creepy, kooky, mysterious, and spooky together – that's the point. They know each other's kinks, quirks, and sweet spots and they're not afraid to be affectionate or proclaim their love for each other – sometimes inappropriately, but still. Wouldn't you love to have a relationship like this? ## 1. Always Know when Your Lover is Unhappy … or, Er, Happy ![Always Know when Your Lover is Unhappy … or, Er, Happy](https://img.allw.mn/content/vn/zt/rrs1n93r565f4f73799f5266647492_500x278.gif) Maybe your boo likes being miserable (Heather knows this struggle). Maybe you're in love with somebody who's only happy when it rains. Whatever the case, know what makes your lover unhappy ... or happy. ## 2. The Couple Who Judges Together Stays Together ![The Couple Who Judges Together Stays Together](https://img.allw.mn/content/ql/c8/rzlldppa565f4f8394dcc575955451_500x275.gif) That fabulous moment when you share an opinion without even looking at each other. ## 3. Dance like No One's Looking ![Dance like No One's Looking](https://img.allw.mn/content/cc/fq/hmgtkfye565f4f92892e1653779115_495x267.gif) If Gomez and Morticia can teach us one thing, it's how to keep the passion alive... ## 4. No, Seriously, Forget the World and do Your Thing ![No, Seriously, Forget the World and do Your Thing](https://img.allw.mn/content/cw/ns/lvk4uw83565f4fa19bc30636475800_500x376.gif) ...and how to be silly together. Serious. Dance together more, even if you're both bad at it. ## 5. Never Let Your Lover Get Bored ![Never Let Your Lover Get Bored](https://img.allw.mn/content/ut/a9/kfg2vpqo565f4faf145aa044182865_500x271.gif) This goes back to the spice thing, but remember, it's not all about sex. ## 6. Learn How to Make Every Day a Holiday ![Learn How to Make Every Day a Holiday](https://img.allw.mn/content/z9/bb/wuz96d4j565f4fbe371e3068693074_500x220.gif) Learn how to make every day our favorite holiday. If your favorite holiday is Halloween, then Gomez and 'Tish should definitely be your spirit couple. ## 7. Figure out Your Beloved's Favorite Kinks ![Figure out Your Beloved's Favorite Kinks](https://img.allw.mn/content/cs/jd/f5ul09dm565f4fcd1b81a677493130_500x226.gif) Does your girl love having her ear nibbled? Is the boy of your dreams crazy about kissing? Does your partner in crime have a little pain kink? Figure it out. ## 8. Ladies, Always Compliment Your Gomez ![Ladies, Always Compliment Your Gomez](https://img.allw.mn/content/wa/ql/ea68bi3t565f4fdfa3bf8735403680_500x376.gif) Let your lover know how awesome s/he is. Say it often. Stroke the ego. ## 9. Gentlemen, do the Same for Your Morticia ![Gentlemen, do the Same for Your Morticia](https://img.allw.mn/content/r3/x3/urx0e8cr565f4ff259830038784775_750x413.gif) Partners need to compliment each other. Dating, married, hooking up, it doesn't matter. Say something sweet every once in a while. ## 10. Learn about Each Other's Favorite Foods ![Learn about Each Other's Favorite Foods](https://img.allw.mn/content/af/tq/wi4tlzks565f5001165f1844620953_500x349.gif) Learning how your partner takes her/his coffee, if you prefer salt or pepper, your favorite takeout place, and all those little things – it's important. It shows that you're interested and that you care. ## 11. Never Go to Bed on an Argument ![Never Go to Bed on an Argument](https://img.allw.mn/content/pe/u5/fk0tojdj565f501155e06064368265_500x275.gif) Seriously. Don't torture yourself. ## 12. Don't Be Afraid to Define Things for Each Other ![Don't Be Afraid to Define Things for Each Other](https://img.allw.mn/content/iu/xe/sakeievz565f50218ec99018776135_500x250.gif) Exactly. Your idea of torture might be your lover's idea of heaven. Also, Raul Julia's Gomez just makes my knees weak. ## 13. Have a Realistic View of Your Relationship ![Have a Realistic View of Your Relationship](https://img.allw.mn/content/cq/z0/uumd97ja565f502f5fd7b720826096_500x375.gif) Even Gomez and Morticia had problems. They also had Pugsley so, you know, count yourselves lucky. ## 14. Always Know when to Shut up ![Always Know when to Shut up](https://img.allw.mn/content/f5/j5/gpxff2oa565f503f992af638561313_500x264.gif) Remember, sometimes it's more important to listen than it is to speak. There will also come a point in your relationship where you just need to stfu. ## 15. Make the Most of Your Romantic Evenings – No Matter What the Weather ![Make the Most of Your Romantic Evenings – No Matter What the Weather](https://img.allw.mn/content/ma/bw/g5utvx0s565f504ed3c44471238504_500x269.gif) There's a silver lining hiding behind every cloud ... and every raindrop. ## 16. Strive to Please Each Other ![Strive to Please Each Other](https://img.allw.mn/content/ov/nh/b8ef8cwr565f50636653a325332436_500x281.gif) And don't be afraid to ask your boo for what pleases you, either. ## 17. Promise to Love Each Other Forever ![Promise to Love Each Other Forever](https://img.allw.mn/content/c5/qv/akckr7gg565f507653349549567957_500x270.gif) That reminds me ... Heather, I cannot tell you how grateful I am that our lifeless bodies will be rotting together for all eternity. Plainly, sitcom Gomez and Morticia are just as passionate as the '90s couple – although I have to admit a preference for the chemistry between Anjelica Huston and Raul Julia, who were just ridiculously beautiful together. Still, the point remains the same: #relationshipgoals. No matter how kooky or spooky you are, there's someone out there for you. 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