6. He Lies and He Lies a Lot

There are many reasons a man may lie while in a relationship with you, and part of you has to understand that you share the blame for it:

- If you nag and berate him for doing the same things he has always done, then his best defense is to lie about it.

- If he does not care about you and is using you, then he will lie to you.

- If you do not demand respect from your man, and if you do not earn that respect, then he will lie to you.

- If he is an addict of any shape or form, then he is going to lie to you.

You have to identify the reasons behind his lies and address them. Do not demand the truth because that is not the way you get it. If anything, demand respect, but be sure you earn it first. Controlling a man and trying to make him something he is not will simply make him lie more.

He Watches Porn on His Phone or Computer


Beryl Stokes
Who needs a man who keeps lying ? Does anyone need a man who perpetually looks at other women ? Plenty more fish in the sea who do not behave like this.
Porn a big no no it's disrespectful ! I don't get the hugging bit, I just ask for a hug and get one
Lil hez
@JP thanks for clearing that up. I think this article sterotyped men. And me personally my man watching porn in a relationship is an absolute not. Sorry but I want a man who respects and values me
(I meant we "can" climax but it's not like before, it's not interesting anymore doing it ourselves. My man touches me better than I do myself and same thing with him towards me. That's why I said we "...
I disagree too. Both me and my bf have big sex drives and we used to masturbate and watch porn before we got together but ever since we're together we honestly haven't felt the need to masturbate AT A...
I agree, the article is mainly great except for the masturbation part. My husband and I talked about that and he doesn't masturbate at all while I do. He also thinks porn is "stupid."
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