7. He Watches Porn on His Phone or Computer

Sorry ladies, but here is a home truth you will not like. All men masturbate, and all men do it at least twice per week. Some men, including those in relationships, will have to do it once per day (depending on his sex drive). Some men also need to do it after sex, even if it was fulfilling sex. These are just truths that you need to know. Men are not judging you or rejecting you when they look at porn.

Many men masturbate to women they wouldn’t dream of dating or even touching in real life. The fix is to talk about porn with him. Do not quiz him or accuse him, or try to investigate why he is a “pervert.” Talk about it to understand his need and drive to masturbate. This will enable you to be more accepting and less judgmental. It will stop you feeling it is an action against you and help you realize it is not a worrisome symptom of your relationship.

Talking is easy if you put in the effort and work in the right direction. Happy couples tend to be great communicators. Are there any issues you don’t believe can be fixed through talking about it?


Totally agree with @Gracie !
The part about all men masturbate really upsets me because I think that's wrong. You cannot generalise a whole sex of people. Just because they're men doesn't mean they're all the same just like not all women are the same so yeah I totally disagree with that 👌
This is great :)
Ladies, Be careful with #7! Not all men masturbate. All men do not do it twice per week. When I am in a relationship with woman I love, there is zero masturbation even when we are not physically intim...
Brilliant ! Thank you ' x
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