3. Sex Toys

Another rule in a lesbian relationship is that not every relationship has to have sex toys – and if a lesbian does use them, it doesn't mean that she is missing something. Truthfully, a girl can get off in so many other ways and sex toys can just be for fun. In a lesbian relationship, us girls just want to have fun!

Sex Does Not Have to Be a Staple Every Night


Heather Jensen
Aww! That's so awesome! :) I would definitely say that you should start telling people about you being bi -- when you are ready though.
Heather Jensen
Hi Madalyn! :) Thanks for the comment! Will do -- I really appreciate your interest!
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My Girl friend and i started going out a month ago and i told no one about my being Bi Sexual .... Any way i feel the same way we laugh and hug and this week end we are going camping 4 our 1st date we...
Heather Jensen
Agreed! Thanks for sharing that! :)
Sex doesn't have to be a staple every night because it can't be. "Fondling" and sex toys do not = sex. Thats not sex. Just throwing in my two cents for you ladies :)
Lyndsie Robinson
Heather and I feel that way as well, it amazes me how many times people ask us if "it's still cheating if one of you sleeps with a guy." Um, yes? Yes it is!
My girlfriend and I believe that any relationship, no matter who you are or what sex you are, should have commitment. Cheating is cheating.
Heather Jensen
Hi Alletta! Thank you for this! :) A lot of people don't do that, they treat these relationships very different.
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