Sex is fun. Like anything else, though, it can be easy to get into a routine. There’s no reason that it has to be the same old song and dance every time! We’ve gathered some tips from sex experts on how to have more fun and try new things in the bedroom.
1. Move Things around
Yes, sex on a bed is great (and comfy, especially afterwards). But it’s not a bad idea to change locations every now and then. I’m sure we’ve all seen a movie where the passion leads to the top of a kitchen counter or fun inside a car. Get creative and have fun mixing it up.
2. Foreplay is Key
Okay, so most of us know that foreplay is essential for a better bedroom experience. There actually are some exciting ways to initiate the action, though. Doing everything except the act itself can make it more thrilling. There are fun games like Sexy Truth or Dare that therapists suggest to get things rolling.
3. Try a New Look
If it’s been a while since you treated yourself to new lingerie, then go for it. Buying something new can help you feel more confident and sexy and attracts the eye of your partner. Little details can attract the eye to different areas, and the options are endless. Unique styles can make you more daring in the bedroom and you may end up trying things you haven’t before.
4. Stimulate Your Senses
The senses in our bodies create different sensations during sex, and it can be fun to focus your efforts on them individually. For example, you can use blindfolds to heighten each other’s attention to touch. Not being able to see can make the whole experience much more exciting. You can light different candles for scents, and so on. Have fun exploring those areas of your body.
Massages are everything. We mean it! Not only do they feel heavenly, but also they increase the level of intimacy tenfold. Sex therapists recommend working slowly and introducing oils as well. The smells stimulate the senses and many of them produce a warming sensation that is heavenly.
6. Use Pillows
Knowing your angles isn’t just crucial for taking the perfect selfie. Different positions during sex can be made more enjoyable by performing them in various ways. Not only can the sensations feel unique depending on where you put pillows, but it can also make sex more comfortable in general for your body. A win-win.
7. Go out More
The more intimacy you have with your partner, the more comfortable and fun sex will be. You can increase this by simply spending more time with them outside the bedroom. If you do exciting stuff just for fun, then this spontaneity is bound to come back into your sex life. This is another thing that has mutual benefits, and we love it!
These are just a few suggestions from the experts on how to spice your sex life up, but we’re sure there are others. We would love to hear from you and listen to your opinion! Thanks for reading!