When you first meet, you do not need sexy games to spice up your date night, you can’t get enough of each other – there’s always kissing, hugging, hand-holding and love making.
And then with familiarity comes the routine, not to mention responsibilities of the daily life. Slowly, the sexiness in your relationship may dwindle to a point where sex becomes almost a hum drum transaction.
In some cases, it is even scheduled in the calendar, like every Monday night or Sunday morning when the kids are asleep.
Long-term relationships need to be kept alive. Getting bored with the same sexual routine is dangerous to a relationship, and it then begins to be possible that one or the other of you might stray. It’s not that he or she doesn’t love you; it’s that familiarity can be so unbearable.
If your bedroom life has become predictable and infrequent, it’s high time you spiced things up in the bedroom with some sexy games. I have chosen just a few that I think are fun, but I’m sure you can think of other cute sexy games that tickle your fancy.
1. Say It with Sushi
I do! And so does my gorgeous dearly-beloved man. You could go out to dinner, of course, and eat all you can at a buffet. Or you could try and do something a little more daring. This is what I do. Instead of going out to dinner to eat sushi, I order a deluxe platter of sushi and have it delivered. I make sure that the sushi includes a variety of delicious eats, from tuna to salmon to avocado and even eel. Then I blindfold my man and put a piece of sushi somewhere on my body. He has to find the sushi using his mouth alone. After he eats it, he has to name the ingredients. If he gets it right, I… let’s just say he gets handsomely rewarded.
2. Spin the Bottle
Remember being 15 and playing spin the bottle? When the bottle faced you, you had to take off a piece of clothing in front of a whole circle of other gawky adolescents or kiss the person opposite you. It was awkward but thrilling at the same time. Okay, now that you’re in a relationship, there are only two of you in the game. Nevertheless, it’s still a lot of fun. Wear your sexiest underwear and take off each item as coyly as possible for your man to be really spiced up.
3. Kissing Game
Kissing gets the adrenalin going and generally gets you in the mood. Couples don’t kiss enough. So here’s a fun kissing game. You think of a word in a category, say “parts of the body”. Your partner has to guess the word. Each time he gets it wrong, you must kiss each other. You decide how long the kiss is. Try and choose something obscure, like middle ear drum, if you want the kisses to go on and on!
4. Doctor/patient Role Play
Seriously. Play acting in the bedroom is fun. It allows us to leave our conventional selves and act out a part. Usually in this game, the man is the doctor and the woman the patient. Why not try it the other way around? It’s sure to bring some spice into sex life.
5. Hide and Seek
This is another childhood favourite that all of us can remember playing. Someone hides somewhere in the house, while the other shuts their eyes and counts to 20. Then they must find the person who is hiding. In this game, you can take turns hiding and decide on your rewards beforehand. For example, the first time you find him, you may want your reward to be a slow kiss. The first time he finds you, he wants his reward to be… Well, I’ll leave that one to your imagination.
Having fun in the bedroom means lots of laughter, and we all know laughter is the best… recipe for a happy relationship.