--- title: "17 Signs He Actually Deserves to Be with You ..." description: "He Appreciates Everything You do; He Gives You Affection; He Makes Plans; He Talks to You before Making Decisions; He Compliments You; More ..." url: "https://love.allwomenstalk.com/signs-he-actually-deserves-to-be-with-you/" category: "love" last_updated: "2026-06-02" --- # 17 Signs He Actually Deserves to Be with You ... It's time to stop wondering if you deserve your boyfriend, and start wondering if he deserves you. You're an amazing woman, which means you shouldn't settle for anything less than the best. That's why you need to figure out if he actually deserves to be with you. Here are the signs that say he does: ## 1. He Appreciates Everything You do ![He Appreciates Everything You do](https://img.allw.mn/content/bn/dh/e3qg1pgj563a25fa86381744487559_500x280.gif) When you give him a ride home, does he thank you? When you give him the best sex of his life, does he look appreciative, or does he act like it was no big deal because it's "your job?" ## 2. He Gives You Affection ![He Gives You Affection](https://img.allw.mn/content/y9/b6/wnz8brzx563a25fae294e294759004_500x281.gif) Does he hug you and kiss you on the daily? Does he say those three little words whenever he gets the chance? ## 3. He Makes Plans ![He Makes Plans](https://img.allw.mn/content/um/ft/vd4t45ni563a25faf36ed937780778_375x209.gif) Does he wait for you to make plans for the weekend, or will he set something up himself? ## 4. He Talks to You before Making Decisions ![He Talks to You before Making Decisions](https://img.allw.mn/content/eu/re/d1jh115s563a25fb91d28728743309_350x194.gif) Will he decide to blow his whole paycheck on a new gaming system before talking to you, or does he consult you before making any major decisions in his life? ## 5. He Compliments You ![He Compliments You](https://img.allw.mn/content/gv/na/k3kfswk8563a25fb69be0513817316_500x214.gif) Does he tell you how pretty you look when you wake up? Does he remind you of how much he loves your smile whenever you laugh? ## 6. He Listens ![He Listens](https://img.allw.mn/content/xd/sq/fevw8a2z563a25fbaacf0837431323_320x181.gif) Does he just nod his head along when you speak, or does he actually absorb the words you're saying? ## 7. He Talks to You about Everything ![He Talks to You about Everything](https://img.allw.mn/content/h0/hc/mcfsnhwe563a25fbd4d9e399905200_500x250.gif) Does he tell you all about his day before you even ask? Or does he like to keep his stories a secret, even from you? ## 8. He Protects You ![He Protects You](https://img.allw.mn/content/yg/fz/takywvme563a25fc155c1659662686_500x217.gif) Will he defend you when his mother says something mean about you? Will he get in between you and a man who's saying inappropriate things to you? ## 9. He Keeps His Promises ![He Keeps His Promises](https://img.allw.mn/content/xl/a1/ntshns2o563a25fcca32d559618567_245x160.gif) Does he keep his word? Is he someone you can count on, no matter what? ## 10. He Doesn’t Lie or Cheat ![He Doesn’t Lie or Cheat](https://img.allw.mn/content/q2/gh/cvwq6t4t563a25fc93a60238473064_500x233.gif) Does he always tell you the truth, even when it's uncomfortable? Does he remain loyal to you, even though other girls are interested in him? ## 11. He Makes You Feel Better about Yourself ![He Makes You Feel Better about Yourself](https://img.allw.mn/content/x2/um/ehzhb7z9563a25fd44234958822368_500x281.gif) Does he make you want to be a better person? Does he make your life feel a little brighter? ## 12. He Treats You as an Equal ![He Treats You as an Equal](https://img.allw.mn/content/wj/es/j68qm3lw563a25fcf0c84391744930_245x185.gif) Does he talk down to you like you're inferior, or does he treat you like an equal? ## 13. He Puts You before Anyone else ![He Puts You before Anyone else](https://img.allw.mn/content/g7/dk/bep7nsqd563a25fd37a78932993021_245x206.gif) Does he consider your feelings before he makes a decision? Does he try to make you happy, even if it makes things harder on himself? ## 14. He Believes in You ![He Believes in You](https://img.allw.mn/content/jl/v1/l6re24t5563a25fd74228719584269_500x282.gif) Does he genuinely think you can accomplish your goals? Does he show support for you during every step of the way? ## 15. You Both Put in Equal Effort ![You Both Put in Equal Effort](https://img.allw.mn/content/ew/vh/ga6orygp563a25fe8de97289580832_500x275.gif) Does he do as many thoughtful things for you as you do for him? Do you split the housework and bills? ## 16. He Makes You Feel Beautiful ![He Makes You Feel Beautiful](https://img.allw.mn/content/ix/l6/yz2704tw563a25fe3f8a4890245324_245x204.gif) Does he neglect you, or does he make you feel special? ## 17. Your Parents like Him ![Your Parents like Him](https://img.allw.mn/content/af/bq/q1iljzvy563a25ff55019988850366_300x169.gif) Do your friends and family actually think that he's good enough for you? Do they encourage you to stay with him? Never settle for less than you deserve! 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