When you are dating 👫 someone new, it can be hard to deal with their exes and their history, especially if they aren't over them. If you are wondering if your new 🆕 boyfriend is still thinking 💭 about his ex, these are some of the surefire signs that you need to watch ⌚ out for. Trust me, if he is following along with some of these signs, he for sure is still thinking 💭 about her.
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All of the Talking 📱 He Does about Her
Every conversation really starts with her and ends with her. He talks about how it 'used' to be with her and sometimes, he even compares you to her. None 🈚 of this is good 👍 girls 👭 and none 0️⃣ of this is okay. You need to make sure that if your boy 👦🏽 is talking 📞 about someone, it is you, not her.
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He Technically is Still in Contact with Her Family
He's even considered part of her family! How messed up 👆 is that? He might be considered an 'ex', but he still heads to their Thanksgiving, their Christmas ⛄ and heck, he even takes his ex and their little sister 👨👩👧👦 trick or treating together. This isn't something you should put up 🆙 with.
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Oh Yes, They Hang out Still
Alright, so this one 1️⃣ can be tricky because sometimes, you are friends with your ex. What I mean by this is that he is choosing hanging out with her over hanging out with you. Sure, if they used to have a thing and they are friends and once in a while, they meet up 🆙 for coffee ☕ – that's different than actually choosing to hang out with her over you.
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Favors? He's Always Doing Them for Her
Not to say that he doesn't exactly do favors for you too but he really, really does favors for her. In fact, he always seems to be disappearing to do something for her and she is happy 😺 to take 🎬 him away from her, no 🚫 matter what.
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He'll Take 🎬 Her Phone 📞 Calls, No 🙅 Matter What
Speaking 💬 of no 👎 matter what, he will take 🎬 a phone 📲 call 📱 from her no 🚫 matter what he is doing or in the middle of. That's not a real, true boyfriend right? After all, if you are having sex, he shouldn't stop 🙅 that to answer a call 📞 from his ex.
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Silence at the proper season is wisdom, and better than any speech.
Facebook, Twitter, Instagram – They Are All over It Together
Oh god, social media 📻 can be a real killer. If they are all over social media 📺 together, constantly tagging each other, constantly in pictures, that … could be a sign 💳 that he is thinking 💭 about her constantly too.
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He Sometimes Uses Present 🎁 Tense when Talking 📱 about Their Relationship
Yep. That 'used' to, suddenly becomes something in real time. That isn't a great 👌 sign ♌ when the past starts to come back 🔙 to haunt 👻 both of you.
Now that you know some of the signs that you need to look 👀 for, pay attention. Just because he hangs out with his ex doesn't necessarily mean anything, however, you've got to watch ⌚ out for the rest of these signs.
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