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title: "7 Signs His Personality is Toxic for You ..."
description: "He is a Victim of His Circumstances; He Can Only See Things in Black and White; He Can't See the Positive in Anything; He Gets Overwhelmed Even with Simple Tasks; He Lives in Uncertainty; More ..."
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# 7 Signs His Personality is Toxic for You ...

If you want to be happy, you shouldn't date a pessimist. [Your Tango](https://www.yourtango.com/experts/ravid-yosef/relationship-deal-breaker-every-optimist-must-consider) has proved that. Here are a few signs that their website claims are toxic for any relationship:

## 1. He is a Victim of His Circumstances

[https://media.giphy.com/media/CeT0RIjH41FIs/giphy.gif](https://media.giphy.com/media/CeT0RIjH41FIs/giphy.gif)
Does he always play the victim? Does he refuse to take responsibility for his actions? Then he's unhealthy to be around.

## 2. He Can Only See Things in Black and White

![He Can Only See Things in Black and White](https://img.allw.mn/content/fe/zp/jnh2cqmi566590deb1d3f468287992_500x281.gif)

You can't view everything as "right" or "wrong," or "good" and "evil." There's a lot of grey area. If he can't see that, his perspective needs to change.

## 3. He Can't See the Positive in Anything

![He Can't See the Positive in Anything](https://img.allw.mn/content/c5/zh/w7rgi2z9566590ded324c914879099_400x226.gif)

His pessimism will rub off on you. If he's unhappy, even after he gets a promotion, then he doesn't know how to enjoy life.

## 4. He Gets Overwhelmed Even with Simple Tasks

![He Gets Overwhelmed Even with Simple Tasks](https://img.allw.mn/content/i4/bh/ikb4bf44566590e0385b9220611374_384x216.gif)

It's not that difficult to put gas in his car. If he won't go to the gas station without whining and complaining, he's not right for you.

## 5. He Lives in Uncertainty

[https://media.giphy.com/media/Aiwd8LlzIoRs4/giphy.gif](https://media.giphy.com/media/Aiwd8LlzIoRs4/giphy.gif)
You don't want to be with a man who changes his mind constantly. That means he'll eventually change his mind about you.

## 6. He's Ruled by Fear

![He's Ruled by Fear](https://img.allw.mn/content/yz/qa/opmromi9566590de8871e998241458_500x213.gif)

Yes, life is scary. However, he can't let his fear of failure hold him back in life. If it does, he'll never get anywhere.

## 7. He Doesn't Remember Being Happy

![He Doesn't Remember Being Happy](https://img.allw.mn/content/yq/sm/zpsd7pr1566590deac786370332899_500x275.gif)

If he doesn't know what it's like to be happy, he must not be happy with you. You two deserve better, so find someone who appreciates having you around.

Are you in an unhealthy relationship?

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