7 Signs You Are Not a Casual Dater ...

Not all of us are casual daters, it might just not be in your blood; but how do you know what signs you are not a casual dater to look out for? How do you know for sure that you aren't someone that can date … casually? Well, I've got all you commitment-driven peeps covered, I've got the top 7 signs you are not a casual dater and what to look out for! Take a look below!

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1. You Are Commitment-Driven

You Are Commitment-Driven One of the very top signs you are not a casual dater that you should be watching out for all revolves your feelings about dating. Do you like to date? Do you want to date? Or are you one of those people that is really looking for a commitment right off of the bat? If so, don't stress, it just means you aren't into casual dating.

2. You Want to Settle down

You Want to Settle down Settling down is not a bad thing at all, but do you not even want to go through the dating process of it all? You really just want to move onto the relationship part and the moving in part and finally, the marriage part. Wanting to settle down is awesome, but it also could mean that you just really don't want to casually date.

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3. You Hate Dating

You Hate Dating Do you despise dating? Do you think that it is absolutely horrible and you dread every date? That is totally one of the signs that you are not exactly a casual dater. Hating dating isn't a bad thing though, I'm the same way! I wanted to settle down right away.

4. First Dates Terrify You

First Dates Terrify You First dates are the worst! Not only do you not know the person that you are heading out with, but most of the time, there isn't a huge connection. Unless you are a lucky one and connect on the first date. Are you one of those people that absolutely hate first dates? Do they scare you? That's a sign you might not be a casual dater!

5. You Don't like to Seek out Dating Partners

You Don't like to Seek out Dating Partners You are looking for someone long-term, not someone that is going to be just a dating partner, that's a surefire sign that you are not a casual dater! Someone who is a casual dater is constantly looking for some to just date, not someone that is going to be a boyfriend or girlfriend. Remember this when you are looking for a partner, not a dating buddy!

6. You Want Someone to Come Home to

You Want Someone to Come Home to Do you constantly dream of the day that you can come home to someone that doesn't have fur and make purring noises (or barking in my case)? If you dream of having someone constantly by your side and someone that is going to live with you and put up with you regardless of what happens, you want a relationship, not someone to just date.

7. You Think about a Wedding Constantly

You Think about a Wedding Constantly Finally, do you have your wedding already planned in your head? Do you have it already dreamed out to the very detail? While most girls do, it is because they want a commitment, they want someone to marry and someone to be there for them, not someone that is just going to be casual.

Casual dating isn't bad, in fact, I'm a huge fan of casual dating, but some people are more commitment based. So, who are you? Are you commitment based or a casual dater?

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Comfortable with the fact that I'm probs not a casual dater

I realise m on a perfct track..m in a relationship (long distnce bt too close) Past 4 yrs..v plan to marry..m 19 by d way..feels great..!

I'm pretty young, 19 actually, and I really am looking for a steady relationship... I always felt out of the loop with people my age cause all they want to do is hook up and bounce from person to person. this helped me feel better about wanting a good solid relationship. especially since I just got hurt by a guy that is older than me :/ but thank you for the advice :)

Wish I could be more of a casual dater! Seems exciting and fun

Definitely not a casual dating person, but it seems fun and less stressful

That's me and I am 25. Never dated anyone ever. (Sigh)

I'm defiantly not a casual dater but I'm wondering does being older have anything to do with it ? Maybe I should be hmm...

Thanks for writing this! I have never really felt comfortable with casual dating and wondered if I should. This made me feel more comfortable about that(:

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